Balance question

[JudgementDay]

I've heard that you should use the "keep-away" method to make her pursue you, instead of the other way around, but if you use it too much, you'll come across as shy, and that's not good...

How are you supposed to strike a balance in using the "keep-away" method so that you don't look desperate and also so you don't look shy?

 

[CoRVeTTe6699]

im still trying to figure that out.. i dont know how to play that part of the game yet

you dont wanna be up her ass though...no1 wants something thats too easy

 

[gav]

Make sure you're noticed first (not just so that she sees you). Then pull away so she'll start to think "hold the phone, why isn't he giving me any more attention. i've got to seduce him now? wait a minute, i need some peanuts first and maybe some jam"

 

[NRM]

Let her know you're interested, but don't let her have control of you. She has to earn your time and you are interested in letting her have it if she can win you over. But she has to constantly do that to keep you.

It's the same as calling a week after you get the number. You asked so you're intrested, but you didn't call the next day because you have bigger things on your priorities. Not only that, you waited a whole week, so within that time, everything you did was worth more than her.

Make her work for you and the relationship will go on for a long time.

 

[TyTe`EyEs]

If you're at a fat a$$ party it's hard to use the "keep away" method. There's so many dudes trying to get laid. In this type of situation it's best to spit some game for a while then migrate around the party. After a while, come back and spit some more. You have to keep this up to stay on her mind. Worked for me last night.

 

[JudgementDay]

Originally posted by TyTe`EyEs
If you're at a fat a$$ party it's hard to use the "keep away" method. There's so many dudes trying to get laid. In this type of situation it's best to spit some game for a while then migrate around the party. After a while, come back and spit some more. You have to keep this up to stay on her mind. Worked for me last night.

Yeah, but I was talking about the bigger picture, like a couple weeks or something, not jus one night...

I am asking over the bigger picture of meeting a girl at the beginning of the school year, getting to know her, using C&F in the beginning, getting her interested, then leaving her to get hr wanting you...

How would you do all that over a period of mabye a couple months?

Or is there another method of getting girls over the longer term?

 

[TyTe`EyEs]

Yeah there's another method, spit some game dude. If you're interested in a girl, go lay your game down like a don juan. Get her number, give it a few days, call her and spit some more game.

That 'keep away' sh!t isn't going to work all the time. If you like a girl talk to her whenever you want. Just don't act desperate about it. Staying away is just a way of showing the girl that you don't NEED her and you have a life away from her. Don't put so much thought into it dude, just have fun with it.

NRM had some good advice as well.

 

[AFK Protector]

I think keeping away is more like this:

Move two steps forward, one step back.

Kind of like luring in a catch when you're fishing. You give her a taste, then you turn it down and make her come to you. Its like sampling at the supermarket. You get a sample and if you like it, you'll buy it.

I think you're thinking about Ganji Games witch is basically ignoring the girl....and that kinda makes you look shy like you said.

So just be happy overall and friendly with everyone. Speak your mind about your beliefs and stick to them. That alone should be enough to attract a girl. If she comes to you, do not treat her specially. Good luck man.