Balance of power

[popsickle]

What do you respond to "It seems like I love you so much more than you love me" coming from a LTR?

 

[dustmuffin]

She is looking for reassurance. Not sure exactly how to answer this.

 

[ubercat]

Need a bit more context. It would be rude to turn down so much gold so I'd smirk and say I know babe. And then say look what I do for you I only do that for my special girl. And then change the topic. A man shows his feelings by actions not by big long gay talks. Of course if you really aren't doing much for her then the relationship probably doesn't have legs which is why we need the context.

 

[fastlife]

I'd put an arm around her shoulder or lightly touch the bottom of her jaw; look her in the eyes, maybe smirk a little, and say, "You're cute." Physical touch and subcommunication are the most effective means of bridging the gap between irrational thought and a shared reality. Your physical actions should indicate that you take her seriously, understand the way she's feeling, and are willing to reassure her. Your words and delivery should indicate that even though you recognize how real her emotions feel to her right now, they're silly and you're experienced enough not to get sucked into a losing verbal reassurance game. If she pushes the point, joke it off lightly.

If she sends that via text, text her something like, "God I'm gonna kiss the **** out of you when I get home."

 

[Poon King]

The correct response is: "That is impossible to measure". Then change the subject.

You're welcome.