"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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bah!!! where to go? what to do?

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Does the title says everything? OK here's the deal... I'm kinda new to this all thing and I'm frankly pissed. I feel like my computer and that S-U-X. Not that someone is all-the-times playing some dumb game on me, I also suck (my computer is filled with spyware and virus crap). And guess what? That's not a nice feeling...

So I'm not asking you to clean my computer, I want something else... I'm new here and I frankly do NOT have any clues, so why search if I can spam here? =) I've seen this "The Allmighty DJ Bible" and "The Not-So-Mighty High School DJ Bible". So. The first question would be where to start? I'm 15-16 years old so I guess this is a place for me. Question n0. 2: is the High School Bible "easier" version for kiddies still in high school or it's just the way you should act when you're in high school. I'd like you to save me some time and just answer me which one is better. Please keep in mind that I have "hell-if-I'm-doing-it-let's-do-it-right" attitude... I don't wonna be more mature (ha! to you all 35 years old guys) I wonna stay what I am. In fact I wonna improve myself and than be what I am... :moon:

Question n0. 3. The day before yesterday my summer holidays began and they're gonna last until the 1st of september (I'll be the second grade of highschool). So what do I wonna do. I wonna "train" (?) being a DJ, I wonna have a great time doing so, and I goddamn hope you gonna give me some advice about how to do that. Am I asking too much? I've read that this "boot camp" (or what ever you call it) will take me out of my comfort zone (whatever that means). I DON'T CARE. I wonna do it even if it's the last of me. Goddamnit I'm sick of this life. Better to die now than to continue my life this way. And if a lightining doesn't struck me right now I'll take it as a good sign that I'm on a right way!!! SO. To conclude. HEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEELP!!!

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Read the bible. Go out and get experience.
 

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If you dont have any ways of talking to girls this summer , just do your best to improve as much as you can this summer

get a job
run for n hour a day
work out for an hour every other day
read for an hour a day
clean up everything in your house
Do your summer assingments (well)
start eating right
get rid of any hygenic problem you may have(clean your teeth, wash your face, etc)

Just doing that should take up half your day, and improve yourself beyond belief. You'll be a totally different person in September, and girls will notice.


I did all those starting in April, and now I can honestly say I changed into who i wanted to become.
 

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hey habdragon how do people pick up on such changes? I mean I can understand the physical changes from running/eating healthy/hygeine but I mean things like reading, working, and cleaning I cant imagine how people can pick up on this. Not that I'm discouraging them, because thats the kind of stuff I'm doing since I have nothing better to do and it feels good to be doing something. Are these sort of things just stepping stones, and meant to prepare some lethargic person of a more action-filled life? Thanks for your help.
 

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blackatheart said:
it feels good to be doing something. Are these sort of things just stepping stones,

It feels good, exactly.

If you do all these just to improve yourself and not to impress others, you will be more confident and enjoy life more.

People didnt pick up on the physical changes or the change in my daily schedule, they picked up on the positive attidude that radiated from me because I was enjoying life and felt I was going somewhere. The key is, do it to improve yourself, not to impress others, if your doing it to impress others, the subtle changes won't be there, and you have the wrong mindset completely
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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OK I get it. Read the Bible. But which one? The HS or the real thing? I'd rather read the real one... Secondly I can't get a job. I'm 16 and it's illegal for me to work in my country until I'm 18... Yes that includes being weiter, shop assistant or anything like it :down: I think I'll just start going around the malls and stuff doing BC...
 

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Okay, I really need some advice about getting a job. I've contacted at least 5 places this summer and all of them are either full or when I send in an application and call in the next day it's already taken. I've applied to grocery stores, Blockbuster, Hollywood Video, and even Best Buy. I've had no such luck at any of these places. Fortunately I told this girl I know that works at this math tutoring place I want to work there and she basically hooked me up with a job starting next week. However, it's only part time and I'm going on vacation so I'll only be able to work there like 3-4 weeks. I'm wondering what other jobs I should look to apply for. Like where are all of you working this summer?
 

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adpreston1988 said:
Okay, I really need some advice about getting a job. I've contacted at least 5 places this summer and all of them are either full or when I send in an application and call in the next day it's already taken. I've applied to grocery stores, Blockbuster, Hollywood Video, and even Best Buy. I've had no such luck at any of these places. Fortunately I told this girl I know that works at this math tutoring place I want to work there and she basically hooked me up with a job starting next week. However, it's only part time and I'm going on vacation so I'll only be able to work there like 3-4 weeks. I'm wondering what other jobs I should look to apply for. Like where are all of you working this summer?
way to rip off the other guys thread away from him! haha! and when I wanted to get a job...I applied for like 20-30 places, not just 5. Guess how many calls i got? ONE! just one out of 20! Its just like females I guess. the more approaches the more rejections...but the more yeses. same with applying for a job. haha! and to answer the other dudes question...hell read both of them, they're bound to be similar and I'd say follow the high school one. the older dudes bible is prolly for like mackin on milfs and stuff. Unless girls with baggage is your thing as a sophomore! haha! I didn't even read them to tell you the truth. I just read alot of the quick tips and articles and stuff like that.
 

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so basically what are you saying is just to fvck off and try stuff in the real world?

well i see your point :up:
 

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no, I just think doing that will help you get girls next year more than anything you could d this summer

and not to mention improve you alot
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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