"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bag of Tricks

BrokenPath

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This is for people who keep posting about their situation and are asking for advice.

There are no special things here and there or there is no single paragraph that's going to really make you be what you want to become.

Sure, you can learn a lot of methods and pick up lines here and there, some ****y funny things, and how to be ****y and funny and use kino.

What will you be though? Just a bag of tricks.

You'll have no substance. Eventually all of your tricks will be seen and that is all you will be worth.

Start from ground up. Stop being lazy and not reading the bible.

Read all the extremely long bible posts and get out there and get some EXPERIENCE.

STOP TRYING TO BE A BAG OF TRICKS.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Charm

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Why do you believe being a bag of tricks is something that hinders experience? What if you are constantly adding to your bag? So what if youre tricks are all seen if you keep adding new ones?

Why doen having a bag of tricks prevent you from having substance? Are you saying everyone with a bag of tricks is unable to also have substance?
 

BrokenPath

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Charm said:
Why do you believe being a bag of tricks is something that hinders experience? What if you are constantly adding to your bag? So what if youre tricks are all seen if you keep adding new ones?

Why doen having a bag of tricks prevent you from having substance? Are you saying everyone with a bag of tricks is unable to also have substance?
If all you base yourself on is a bag of tricks then you will eventually be found.

Having substance AND a bag of tricks is one thing.

Simply being a bag of tricks which is what most people seem to want to be is only going to give you limited success.

The point is, stop being lazy and wanted quick results. You have to climb the mountain.
 

Lust

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BrokenPath said:
This is for people who keep posting about their situation and are asking for advice.

There are no special things here and there or there is no single paragraph that's going to really make you be what you want to become.

Sure, you can learn a lot of methods and pick up lines here and there, some ****y funny things, and how to be ****y and funny and use kino.

What will you be though? Just a bag of tricks.

You'll have no substance. Eventually all of your tricks will be seen and that is all you will be worth.

Start from ground up. Stop being lazy and not reading the bible.

Read all the extremely long bible posts and get out there and get some EXPERIENCE.

STOP TRYING TO BE A BAG OF TRICKS.
I agree to some degree.

I really do hate the guys that are only part of this site to cry for help every now and then. If they run into a certain problem, they will run to us and expect us to tell them exactly what to do.

Well, to you guys out there, screw you, you lazy b*rstards! Do your own dirty work.

But, having a bag of tricks can be handy at times, but you can't only rely on Canned material you have learned in the past. You need to understand the concepts, not scream out the same lines over and over again.
 
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