"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bag of Tricks

BrokenPath

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This is for people who keep posting about their situation and are asking for advice.

There are no special things here and there or there is no single paragraph that's going to really make you be what you want to become.

Sure, you can learn a lot of methods and pick up lines here and there, some ****y funny things, and how to be ****y and funny and use kino.

What will you be though? Just a bag of tricks.

You'll have no substance. Eventually all of your tricks will be seen and that is all you will be worth.

Start from ground up. Stop being lazy and not reading the bible.

Read all the extremely long bible posts and get out there and get some EXPERIENCE.

STOP TRYING TO BE A BAG OF TRICKS.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Charm

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Why do you believe being a bag of tricks is something that hinders experience? What if you are constantly adding to your bag? So what if youre tricks are all seen if you keep adding new ones?

Why doen having a bag of tricks prevent you from having substance? Are you saying everyone with a bag of tricks is unable to also have substance?
 

BrokenPath

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Charm said:
Why do you believe being a bag of tricks is something that hinders experience? What if you are constantly adding to your bag? So what if youre tricks are all seen if you keep adding new ones?

Why doen having a bag of tricks prevent you from having substance? Are you saying everyone with a bag of tricks is unable to also have substance?
If all you base yourself on is a bag of tricks then you will eventually be found.

Having substance AND a bag of tricks is one thing.

Simply being a bag of tricks which is what most people seem to want to be is only going to give you limited success.

The point is, stop being lazy and wanted quick results. You have to climb the mountain.
 

Lust

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BrokenPath said:
This is for people who keep posting about their situation and are asking for advice.

There are no special things here and there or there is no single paragraph that's going to really make you be what you want to become.

Sure, you can learn a lot of methods and pick up lines here and there, some ****y funny things, and how to be ****y and funny and use kino.

What will you be though? Just a bag of tricks.

You'll have no substance. Eventually all of your tricks will be seen and that is all you will be worth.

Start from ground up. Stop being lazy and not reading the bible.

Read all the extremely long bible posts and get out there and get some EXPERIENCE.

STOP TRYING TO BE A BAG OF TRICKS.
I agree to some degree.

I really do hate the guys that are only part of this site to cry for help every now and then. If they run into a certain problem, they will run to us and expect us to tell them exactly what to do.

Well, to you guys out there, screw you, you lazy b*rstards! Do your own dirty work.

But, having a bag of tricks can be handy at times, but you can't only rely on Canned material you have learned in the past. You need to understand the concepts, not scream out the same lines over and over again.
 
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