ok i've had a bad week, all my options are over i was down to my last 2 and whenever i was in this situation in the past i'd lose both. so when i lost 1 of them beginning of the week i knew the 2nd would follow.
anyway, this 1 i was suppose to see today i already saw signs of low IL, she was a facebook date, gave me her number over a week ago and i tried to set up a date after the number close cos i responded to her message after she gave me the number but no response, so i leave it for a few days cos i duno if she read it.
i texted my number last sunday offering 2 days when i was free. she didn't respond. so i tried calling the day after and sent a msg on facebook when she didnt answer asking her when she was free. she told me fri evening after 6 and she'd let me know the exact time later in the week. i didn't like how she controlled the frame so i told her fri would be busy at bars and that thursday at 8pm was better, she msgs me back saying she cant do thurs but offers sat so i follow back saying that if we were meeting fri then we'd go this place, otherwise on sat we'd go to this other place (i wanted to go somewhere empty and quiet). this was on thursday and the text didnt deliver for an hour and half, i duno why said it was unavailable. then when it delivers she responded straight away saying she cant do fri and would be nice to meet at such and such area on sat.
i didn't want to respond straight away making it look like i was hanging by the phone for her to text, so i left it an hour and texted back: 'ok i'll make other plans for tomorrow instead nad i'll reserve sat evening for you instead. we'll go to such and such bar. meet me at 9pm at the station ok?'
this was sent around 7pm and it didn't deliver for over 4 hours! her phone was switched off it said, maybe out of battery i dont know.
when it finally delivered it was midnight so i didn't get a msg back, yesterday didn't get 1 either, i dont know what happened!! if i had sent my text straight away im sure she would have confirmed 'ok'.
so i text her at lunch today saying 'meet me at the station at 9pm tonight ok? my text didn't deliver to you till midnight for some reason'
no response. i just dont understand what the hell happened? i knew she already was an unresponsive person when she didn't reply last week.. a sign of low interest but shes never met me so i cant expect that high interest for a facebook meet up.
what the hell happened in those 4 hours where the text didn't deliver and suddenly now shes not interested?
its like she met someone in that time and changed her mind. it just doesn't make sense. what i wrote i dont think seemed needy or clingy and 4 hours before she offered saturday.. i just have no clue why..???
anyway, this 1 i was suppose to see today i already saw signs of low IL, she was a facebook date, gave me her number over a week ago and i tried to set up a date after the number close cos i responded to her message after she gave me the number but no response, so i leave it for a few days cos i duno if she read it.
i texted my number last sunday offering 2 days when i was free. she didn't respond. so i tried calling the day after and sent a msg on facebook when she didnt answer asking her when she was free. she told me fri evening after 6 and she'd let me know the exact time later in the week. i didn't like how she controlled the frame so i told her fri would be busy at bars and that thursday at 8pm was better, she msgs me back saying she cant do thurs but offers sat so i follow back saying that if we were meeting fri then we'd go this place, otherwise on sat we'd go to this other place (i wanted to go somewhere empty and quiet). this was on thursday and the text didnt deliver for an hour and half, i duno why said it was unavailable. then when it delivers she responded straight away saying she cant do fri and would be nice to meet at such and such area on sat.
i didn't want to respond straight away making it look like i was hanging by the phone for her to text, so i left it an hour and texted back: 'ok i'll make other plans for tomorrow instead nad i'll reserve sat evening for you instead. we'll go to such and such bar. meet me at 9pm at the station ok?'
this was sent around 7pm and it didn't deliver for over 4 hours! her phone was switched off it said, maybe out of battery i dont know.
when it finally delivered it was midnight so i didn't get a msg back, yesterday didn't get 1 either, i dont know what happened!! if i had sent my text straight away im sure she would have confirmed 'ok'.
so i text her at lunch today saying 'meet me at the station at 9pm tonight ok? my text didn't deliver to you till midnight for some reason'
no response. i just dont understand what the hell happened? i knew she already was an unresponsive person when she didn't reply last week.. a sign of low interest but shes never met me so i cant expect that high interest for a facebook meet up.
what the hell happened in those 4 hours where the text didn't deliver and suddenly now shes not interested?
its like she met someone in that time and changed her mind. it just doesn't make sense. what i wrote i dont think seemed needy or clingy and 4 hours before she offered saturday.. i just have no clue why..???
