BAFC- Everyone this forum is too advanced for me. What exactly is the average chump?

[gspshields2]

The average chump is able to get dates once in a while?
How would you define to the average chump to be?

I would say however bad someone is, once and a while they will get dates,
and end up marrying an average to pretty looking girl.

I believe that there is another terminology for people like me included that is a below average chump.
BAFC

Man, I strive just to be an average chump.
I would love to be average.

 

[PokerStar]

dude. you need to get out more. stop coming here and diluting the forum with this "high school, I'm depressed but I want to keep up with the Jones'" attitude.

honestly. why do you want to strive to be average?

work on yourself. work on interacting. work on plain ol' just having fun.

YOUR MOMENT IS NOW. DON'T WASTE IT ON FORUM COMPLAINING

 

[gspshields2]

dude. you need to get out more. stop coming here and diluting the forum with this "high school, I'm depressed but I want to keep up with the Jones'" attitude.

honestly. why do you want to strive to be average?

work on yourself. work on interacting. work on plain ol' just having fun.

YOUR MOMENT IS NOW. DON'T WASTE IT ON FORUM COMPLAINING

I get out quite a bit actually, but as you can tell im still very lonely. I figure the average frustrated chump (AFC) doesn't have it this bad. at least once in a while they will get dates.

has anyone noticed people like me as well? Below average frustrated chump (BAFC)?

 

[PokerStar]

you might go out. but not enough to keep your mind and body busy.

stop talking about yourself so negatively. you have to stop that. it doesn't help you in the short or long run.

who cares what a bafc is. who cares if there are people below an afc. all you know is that you are and you must rise above it.

out of sight. out of mind.

 

[The_411]

The average chump is overly cocnerned with what others think of him.

The average chump gets overexuberant at the first inclination that a girl might like him.

The average chump sticks with the status quo because changing requires to much effort.

The average chump accepts his reality without questioning if his reality is what is because he elects not to take life on

etc. etc.

The struggles with women are reflective of one's personal ambition, level of fulfillment, and desire to excel.

It's not about game etc. That's all white noise. Game can get you into the front door so to speak but you're not gonna stay long.

That's what inner game is about. It's what separates the pretenders from the true DJs.

When you focus too much on what women are doing thinking, etc it means you're not focusing enough on yourself in terms of goals, ambition, self-improvement.

Let's be real you can never stop improving.

 

[MaxLove]

What is this strive to be average BS?

Average means plainness, nothingess. Do you want to be Ghengis Khan or one of his foot soldier? Control your destiny! We are all both with all the potential in the world to be kings. Think of Ghengis Khan. Arguably one of the most powerful man on Earth. Did he sulk along, settling to be average, or did he take what he wanted, and say "**** you" to fate?

It's all in the mind. Now get that self defeated BS out of your head!

 

[gspshields2]

EVERYONE on this forum is too advanced for me.
I can't get past the stage where girls know that I exist,
while everyone is talking about 3somes WTF?

 

[MaxLove]

Dude. Work on yourself first. If you cannot love yourself, how can you love anyone? Be the flame, not the moth.

Workout, read books. Travel. Make friends with strangers. Learn to socialize. Learn to dress better. Learn to talk to women (start with those you are not interested in). Learn to talk to men (try to hang with "cool" dudes). Learn to be humorous, learn to love yourself and be confident.

Know that there's only one YOU and no one else can make you feel inferior.

Start with that mindset, and when you go out, whatever you do, you will walk around like you own the world, that you are ready for whatever may come your way.

For me, I began to develop my confidence when I took up boxing 6 years ago. Now I am training in MMA. While I am not the best fighter there is, I know that I can handle most baffoons on the street. And that, combined with my intelligence and quick wit, plus somewhat of good look, are the basis of my confidence. YOU have to find what makes YOU confident, what makes you the PRIZE women have to win.

Start with that!

 

[PokerStar]

EVERYONE on this forum is too advanced for me.
I can't get past the stage where girls know that I exist,
while everyone is talking about 3somes WTF?

we all have to start off somewhere. work on your game.

you think gsp started kicking ass as soon as he came out of his moms womb? no. he had to train, practice, spar constantly for years and even decades.

you dont become a don juan over night. practice, patience and drive, is what it takes.

STOP THIS SELF PITY CRAP.

Make it a point to become better everyday.