"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Badboy's workshop: Worth It?

No Bones

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OK, I'm at the point of my path where I want to seriously get out into the field and make real progress with regards to women and social encounters. I'm sick of waiting, I've recently realised that I have to get out into the field to get where I want to be.

So it seems Badboy's crew is coming to town next month. Judging by my situation above, are his workshops worth it? Have you taken one before?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Derek Flint

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Haven't, but he has an excellent rep.

I would suggest perhaps buying his 3 CD set for $150.00 first.

BTW, since I've gone "direct" and stopped being an "excuser" my game has vastly improved.
 

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Badboy has an incredible reputation. I've listened to his audio cd, and while very impresed, i'm not sure if it merits the $150 price tag.

In terms of workshops, you need to make sure that his workshop would be compatible with you. A cool website that I found today on thundercat's blog is Seduction Workshop Reviews If I were you, I would really research every company and then make your decision...

Also, if you're not approaching at all, you should start before taking any sort of bootcamp etc...

hope this helps
 

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The best workshop around for direct is attract and date. They really look after their students after the workshop.

http://www.direct-method.com/invisionboard/

Talk to the instructors for yourself.

They've had the best reviews I've read. I've heard some badboy horror stories....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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