"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Badboy's workshop: Worth It?

No Bones

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OK, I'm at the point of my path where I want to seriously get out into the field and make real progress with regards to women and social encounters. I'm sick of waiting, I've recently realised that I have to get out into the field to get where I want to be.

So it seems Badboy's crew is coming to town next month. Judging by my situation above, are his workshops worth it? Have you taken one before?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Derek Flint

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Haven't, but he has an excellent rep.

I would suggest perhaps buying his 3 CD set for $150.00 first.

BTW, since I've gone "direct" and stopped being an "excuser" my game has vastly improved.
 

spitkicker

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Badboy has an incredible reputation. I've listened to his audio cd, and while very impresed, i'm not sure if it merits the $150 price tag.

In terms of workshops, you need to make sure that his workshop would be compatible with you. A cool website that I found today on thundercat's blog is Seduction Workshop Reviews If I were you, I would really research every company and then make your decision...

Also, if you're not approaching at all, you should start before taking any sort of bootcamp etc...

hope this helps
 

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The best workshop around for direct is attract and date. They really look after their students after the workshop.

http://www.direct-method.com/invisionboard/

Talk to the instructors for yourself.

They've had the best reviews I've read. I've heard some badboy horror stories....
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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