"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Badass Quotes (Inspiration; Motivation)

Marvin Gaye

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"in school you get a lesson and then take the test. In life, you get the test and then learn the lesson."

"The right question is usually more important than the right answer."

~ Plato

Always be learning from others. Whenever you meet someone, you don’t want something from them, you want to learn from them.

If you don't know where you are going, you'll end up someplace else.

You can have everything in life you want, if you will just help other people get what they want.

~ Zig Ziglar


The only service a friend can really render is to keep up your courage by holding up to you a mirror in which you can see a noble image of yourself.

~ George Bernard Shaw


I’m going to lay this brick as perfectly as a brick can be layed. You do that every single day, and soon you have a wall. - WILL SMITH


There is no finish line. So love the journey.

~ David Weekly


Everything negative — pressure, challenges — is all an opportunity for me to rise.

~ Kobe Bryant
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Marvin Gaye

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"Vulnerability is the only authentic state. Being vulnerable means being open, for wounding, but also for pleasure. Being open to the wounds of life means also being open to the bounty and the beauty. Don't mask or deny your vulnerability: it is you greatest asset. be vulnerable: quake and shake in your boots with it. The new goodness that is coming to you, in the form of opinion, situations, and things can only come to you when you are vulnerable, i.e. open." - Taoist saying

If you ask me, this a pretty badass quote! It reminds me of something I read about body language, when I first discovered this site. I remember reading that a Don Juan's posture should always be open! Arms never crossed, completely open almost as if expecting an attack....my wording might be wrong but I'm sure that's the gist of it.
 

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Do today what others won't, so tomorrow you can do what others can't.
 

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"The greatest barrier to achievement and success is not lack of talent or ability,but rather the fact that achievement and success beyond a certain level are outside of our self-concept/self image of who we are and what is appropriate to us." - Nathaniel Branden
 
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youngmack said:
The greatest barrier to achievement and success is not lack of talent or ability,but rather the fact that achievement and success beyond a certain level are outside of our self-concept/self image of who we are and what is appropriate to us.
Source?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Great thread, I love the Kobe one, here's some Mario Balotelli...

"The talent God gave me is beautiful and wonderful, but it is difficult because you are always facing other people keen to judge you.
There are few people with such talent, so there are few able to judge what I am doing."
 

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I will not die an unlived life. I will not live in fear of falling or catching fire. I choose to inhabit my days, to allow my living to open me, to make me less afraid, more accessible; to loosen my heart until it becomes a wing, a torch, a promise. I choose to risk my significance, to live so that which came to me as seed goes to the next as blossom, and that which came to me as blossom, goes on as fruit.

― Dawna Markova
 

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Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self-esteem, first make sure that you are not, in fact, just surrounded by *******s.

― William Gibson
 
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