"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Bad skin condition

KillingTime

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I had a really bad skin condition that pretty much blistered up a lot of my skin on my sides, back and a little bit on my legs (none of it is visible with clothes on)
It left a ton of scarring and is a big confidence killer, how do I break this to women? It's hard to be all "macho" and then have to break down and tell them that oh yea, I'm kinda scarred for life.... heh, kinda hard to pull off anything ****y or funny after that one.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Marlimus

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Tell them it was part of a gang initiation. When she asks further questions, say it was a part of your life that you are still trying to forget, and that you appreciate it if she doesn't ask any more questions about it. appear deeply traumatized then change the conversation topic quickly.
 
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