"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Bad Situation!

Dearl

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Real situation from start to finish no BS!

For the whole school year me and this HOT girl was eyeing each other. Me, not gettin enough courage to approach, left it on the eyeing each other approach intill I felt it was now or never. I appoached got to no the girl a little well. Good enough that she won't forget me inless she bust her head wide open...god forbid. But the final day of school i get worked up courage to ask for her number. Now like a DJ I didnt ask I told her to put her number in my phone. (What was FUKED UP about it is I have 2 phones, one LSG and a i836, I pulled out the i836 because it look good and it got caught on my pants why this hot girl look at me FUK UP!!!) I manage to grab it and give it to her. NOw nextal buttons be difficult to press and she place her number in my phone so I got the number....So I thought. I only get 6 digits. I was pissed thinking she did that on purpose. But the phone is a issue to press so maybe it was a mistake.

What do the DJ's think, did she miss a # on purpose or was it a accident like i believe???
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Makro2323

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Oh dear! When you got the phone caught, did you turn it into a joke, or did you turn red and appear really embarrassed? About the number issue, I'm not sure whether she did it by accident or on purpose, but usually most people look at the screen when they enter a number to check if it's all there. Does she have your number?
 

Interceptor

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The problem was that you were way too nervous and forgot to check the phone number.
Make it a rule to check the number before accepting it.
Make it a rule to call the number on the spot.

She's gone , dude. Sorry.

Better luck next time with another girl.

Also, every guy has to HAS TO get over his "nervousness" or "shyness" in approaching a girl and asking for her phone number. The BIGGER a deal YOU MAKE IT, the more nervous SHE will become.
It's not a big deal.
In fact, get it through your head that women aren't pissed that you APPROACH.....THEY"RE PISSED BECAUSE YOU DON"T!!!!!!!!!!


Stuff like what happened to this poor kid WILL happen to you.
Learn from his mistakes.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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B4IFURU18?

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LOL, are you serious man. Get a hold of yourself, I'm SURE it was an accident. I'm being serious by the way.

Anyone stupid enough to purposely put 6 digits down, is an idiot, you're getting caught by me 100% of the time, and I'm busting your balls too.

Stop worrying...
 

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Dearl said:
Real situation from start to finish no BS!

For the whole school year me and this HOT girl was eyeing each other. Me, not gettin enough courage to approach, left it on the eyeing each other approach intill I felt it was now or never. I appoached got to no the girl a little well. Good enough that she won't forget me inless she bust her head wide open...god forbid. But the final day of school i get worked up courage to ask for her number. Now like a DJ I didnt ask I told her to put her number in my phone. (What was FUKED UP about it is I have 2 phones, one LSG and a i836, I pulled out the i836 because it look good and it got caught on my pants why this hot girl look at me FUK UP!!!) I manage to grab it and give it to her. NOw nextal buttons be difficult to press and she place her number in my phone so I got the number....So I thought. I only get 6 digits. I was pissed thinking she did that on purpose. But the phone is a issue to press so maybe it was a mistake.

What do the DJ's think, did she miss a # on purpose or was it a accident like i believe???
Dude! Have you heard of paper and pencil? You know the old fashion way of getting a phone number?
 

Dearl

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I don't think it is over with. I'ma see her again. By the time we get back to school I should have the confidents to approach again with no problem.
 
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