"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bad Scary Neighbor!

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First of all, I want only people who experience this situation before to answer this.

One of the neighbor is kinda like a latin thug. Sometimes he had all these 10-15 thugs hangout right out side of my house. I live with my family and we're Chinese. The part which worried me even more is that they kept checking out my little sister and calling her "sexy, come here". She's worried too.

We're afraid something might happen to us if we call the security guard around our area. Besides, the security intentionlly doesn't do anything. He just kept telling my family it's legal for people to make gather around and make noises as long it's not midnight. It's the "policy." And we can't just move, it takes time and money.

I thought about calling the police but what if they retaliate or something. For people who faced similar situations, what should I do? I really don't know.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ken785

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is she hot??..nah j/k man...do you live in a bad neighborhood or something? definitely move...if it takes time to move out into another house definitely start looking into an apartment or why not buy a small condo? It is probably going to be around the cost of renting a house anyway...

why do you live anyway? hope things get better bro...let me know how it goes...
 

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You need a big dog. Two is better. Get a Rottweiler, Doberman, or German Shepherd. No pit bulls, chows, or huskies, which can be great pets but are not protection dogs. When I walk down the street in a rough neighborhood with my giant male German Shepherd, people look at me like I am carrying a shotgun. Big dogs scare people; I like them better than guns. Unlike guns, dogs will work on their own, and can't be taken away and used against you. They also get you into less trouble than guns, while accomplishing the same objective - security for your family.
 

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Why do you assume he is a thug?? Tupac was a thug, or so he claimed, yet he was a brilliant man..


Here is what to do, get balls and go talk to the guy.. Tell him, dude, you're freaking my little sister out and my mom when you hang out with all your friends.. Tell him, you too like to hang out with your buddies, and sometimes people have problems with you, just like the one right here..

Let him know.. Then if he does not change call the police.. Tell them you talked to the guy and all, and they are freaking your little sister out and mom.. Ask them to do something..

If you do not have balls to go and do that, then you might as well move without saying a word..


There you go, an advice from a person who hasn't been in situation similar to yours. Thanks for thinking and judging people with no experience as people who don't know better.. Frankly I find you judgmental..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mr. Wolf said:
Why do you assume he is a thug?? Tupac was a thug, or so he claimed, yet he was a brilliant man..


Here is what to do, get balls and go talk to the guy.. Tell him, dude, you're freaking my little sister out and my mom when you hang out with all your friends.. Tell him, you too like to hang out with your buddies, and sometimes people have problems with you, just like the one right here..

Let him know.. Then if he does not change call the police.. Tell them you talked to the guy and all, and they are freaking your little sister out and mom.. Ask them to do something..

If you do not have balls to go and do that, then you might as well move without saying a word..


There you go, an advice from a person who hasn't been in situation similar to yours. Thanks for thinking and judging people with no experience as people who don't know better.. Frankly I find you judgmental..
So it would be okay if Tupac would be sitting outside making cat calls at your little sister? :rolleyes:
 
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