"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bad reputation, c1ckblock, what would you do here?

TheGambino

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Went to a club in a city near where I live, I come there for years.

Was having a good time and talking to every girl I liked. Then I ran into 2 girls(HB8, HB7) my friend and I know them. We went out to clubs years ago with these two girls and some of my friendgroup because they were dating some of my buddies those days. One of the girls is still the gf of a guy that I was friends with for years but we dont speak to eachother due an issue.

So to make it clear. The girl I wanted to number close knows me a bit of going out years ago with our whole group of friends which I don't speak with anymore. The group fel appart due a fight a couple of years ago and everyone split up. But the friend of the girl I liked was with the camp that Hates me and two of my budds.

Anyway I approached the girl that I liked and asked her where do i Know you from just to start the convo. She replied we were clubbing years ago you dont remember me? I know who you are, she mentioned my name and some other details she knew. I teased her, had fun and suggested to go to a salsa bar soon coz I felt she would like that. She was all over the idea saying: yeaah I like that!! and giving me great signs. After a great 3-4min convo I asked for her number and she hesitates looks at her friend and looks back to me for several seconds. I knew what wassup...

That friend of her doesn't like me her boyfriend was my mate for years but we dont talk to eachother know so she even avoids to speak to me. big big co1ckblock.

I stood before the girl and told her ok give me your number we'll have a great time, since her freind couldnt see what we were doin she put in her number after checking upon her, I smiled told her our date was going to be great and turned back to my mate. Two three mins later I see that she goes to her friend and that her friend asks what we were you doin??
im 100% sure she confessed I gave him my number. The other girl was (saw her emotion) saying stuff like: are you crazy!? you know he has beef with my bf and his brother and some friends, what were you thinking blablabla go on go on...

She was confused I could tell, tho im certain she was interested the other girl is 1000% c1ockblock and if her bf finds out MORE badmouth and c1ockblock.

Annoying situation, would u guys take the risk and contact her anyway?

If you got similar stories post them im interested broskis!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ruthless

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What was the fight about? It sounds like you did something pretty bad to lose a bunch of friends over a fight.

What you did directly affects how you (or if you can) move forward.
 

TheGambino

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Pffft long story bro. short: Our friendgroup had beef with some guys in a club it was a bout a girl that was approached or something ridiculous I didnt have something to do with the cause of the problem, yaap.. afc's.

I helped my budds outside in a fight with the other group.

It was one big mess and the police came some snitched on others and stuff, that was the lead too us falling appart from eachother. After that I quit bein lazy and going out all week, and started tof ocus on school and gym, so I benefit from it bro. but its history, I know who my real friends are know..

back to the topic lol
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ruthless

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If she "belongs" to the other group expect some drama. Probably gonna be another fight in your future.

Worth it, or not? Your decision.
 

TheGambino

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Im sure there will be no fight.
 
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apprenticedj

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I would definitely take the risk, screw it. You're a Don Juan my friend, you don't give a **** what anybody else thinks or says about you. Also Tictac is spot on, now you're forbidden, the temptation alone will make that chick go crazy. Do it, do it, DO IT!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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