bad rep is finally catching up to me

[Five To One]

Last night I was c0ckblocked by my reputation for the first time.
This beautiful girl who iv known for a while now(same school and also a senior) wanted me bad but said no because of the things she has heard about me. "The things I want to do with you..." is what she said. But she went on to say that she has heard that I just say the same thing to every girl. That I try to get with every girl I can..

Im just kinda worried about my life and unsure what to do. Its maybe gotten a bit out of hand since my girlfriend broke up with me. This website makes it seem like its okay to date 3 or 4 girls if possible but im seriously dispised by many of my fellow seniors because of it. And its not that I kiss and tell at all. I keep what I do incredibly low key, iv never bragged or strutted around school because of it but it seems like word still gets around.

I talked to one of my friends and aparently this girl(who refused to sleep with me) heard all this stuff about me from a good friend of mine. A friend who I trusted and I did tell a lot of my secrets to. Should I approach this friend? Im obviously not going to be friends with her anymore but I feel like I need to tell her to keep her mouth shut and not ruin my chances with any more girls. Obviously I wont say it like that.

Should I tone it down and try to become respected again? just date one girl and no more bootie calls

or should I go out of high school in a burst of flames and infamy? After all Im a senior and I will be going to college next year and pretty much have a fresh slate with new people. If its what I enjoy then I think I should do it. It just sucks with a lot of my friends talking behind my back. Its starting to get me down. I dont trust anyone anymore.

I feel like this website might of brought the worst out of me.

What do you guys think? Anyone in a similar situation or mindset about going to college so it doesnt matter if you get a bad rap? I just keep telling myself that I need to stay true to my sexual desires and what I enjoy in life. If people dont like me for it then so be it.

 

[KontrollerX]

"It just sucks with a lot of my friends talking behind my back"

Friends don't damage friends reputations with gossip.

What you had were aquaintences you shared a few fun times with.

Not genuine friends.

"I feel like this website might of brought the worst out of me."

Oh no.

It brought out the best of you but unfortunately with massive success in any endeavor be it financial, sex life, whatever success breeds and brings with it haters.

"Should I tone it down and try to become respected again?"

Nope.

Fvck em.

You'll be gone soon and onto a new and fresher talent pool.

In the meantime use the freezout to practice stepping up your game even more.

Up the bullsh!t you tell these b!tches to epic levels, really do some hardcore manipulation to make them think you've been badmouthed unfairly and should be given a fair chance etc and just keep doing what you are doing.

Infact you might want to start a counter insurgency campaign.

Meaning someone is talking sh!t about you, so its high time you begin spreading damaging lies info about that person or those close to them.

Let it be known that you are not a man to be fvcked with or there will be equal reputation damaging consequences for those the badmouthers of you hold dear if you can't get at them and damage their reputation instead somehow due to your credibility in saying anything about them already being shot by their lies.

This is the game of power.

Law 42

Strike the Shepherd and the Sheep will Scatter

Trouble can often be traced to a single strong individual – the stirrer, the arrogant underling, the poisoned of goodwill. If you allow such people room to operate, others will succumb to their influence. Do not wait for the troubles they cause to multiply, do not try to negotiate with them – they are irredeemable. Neutralize their influence by isolating or banishing them. Strike at the source of the trouble and the sheep will scatter.

After posting this law for you and reading it closely again I'd say if you ever find an opportunity or an opening where you can publicly disgrace or humiliate the person that is damaging your reputation you need to take it.

Once their credibility is lost your credibility returns.

Yeah though you may not get that kind of a great option so unless that happens you'll just have to attack them through attempting to damage the reputation of their friends and having anyone that is loyal to you help you accomplish this.

You do this not because you are a bad guy but because you want your reputation damager to get a powerful incentive to shut their mouth about you.

 

[Five To One]

Thanks for the well thought out reply and I notice the quote from 48 laws of power.

Im glad you think I should turn up my game, to see how rediculious I can get. Push myself and get away with as much as I can. It was the answer I was hoping for. This is high school after all, after this year my trainning wheels will be off, no more free handouts. I need to get all the experience I can get now because ill have to work for pu$$y from here on out.

But I dunno if I will be able to get to the source of the problem, he is actually the alpha male of my social circle and we have been having big problems with eachother for a couple months now. He has too much influence over too many people for me to directly attack him.
But I can defenently do some damage control and try to sweet talk him some.

I need to sleep on this.
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[KontrollerX]

Another thing you can do five to one which may prove more effective is gradually begin to poison your friend group against him one by one piece by piece.

How you do this is you listen closely and find means of conversation with individual friends to find out if they have any resentment towards the leader.

Its this resentment you have to build upon and begin forging an alliance of hatred for this c0cksucker.

Talk to your mutual friends who you find out are resentful of this guy and slowly make them hate the guy more and more until they are putty in your hands and will do the work of talking him down to others for you and with you.

Before you know it you will be the leader of the group but its much wiser to start playing up another guy whose cool but not really a threat to you as the one who everyone should look up to instead of the douchebag you have problems with.

Then the simpletons around you think to themselves wow five to one is right that guy is a douchebag and this other guy five to one points out as a cooler and better guy is indeed a cool level headed guy, he should be our leader instead of the douchebag!

Five to one must be speaking the truth and have no hidden agenda to hurt our original leader so as to take his place as Five to one is promoting a different guy other than himself to take the new leadership/most respected position.

Its a way for you to play a crafty game of social politics and trick your friends into both doing what you want and at the same time not being able to develop any resentment or ill will towards you because you will not take over the leadership position and you also come off as looking like an honest guy who only wants the best for himself and his friends rather than someone who plotted to take down a worthless c0cksucker who they may of continued to like if you didn't gradually poison the well against him and stir up the powerful seeds of dissent.

So you must judge your allies closely Five to one.

You have to find friends who are already harboring resentment of this guy and play on that and make it even more powerful resentment over time as you list the wrongs either real or imagined this guy has done to your resentful friends and others and also you must make sure these allies of yours are smart enough to keep their mouths shut about you helping them to resent the group leader. This whole thing has to be as covert an op as possible to net you the most success.

Use girls he may of burned to help you spread resentment about him as well as you find them.

Use anyone and anything you can to destroy this guy's reputation and leadership status but be thorough, smart and meticulous about it all.

If you find guys that are not in your social group who have some clout who are his enemies use the enemy of your enemy as friends also to help destroy him.

Law 43

Work on the Hearts and Minds of Others

Coercion creates a reaction that will eventually work against you. You must seduce others into wanting to move in your direction. A person you have seduced becomes your loyal pawn. And the way to seduce others is to operate on their individual psychologies and weaknesses. Soften up the resistant by working on their emotions, playing on what they hold dear and what they fear. Ignore the hearts and minds of others and they will grow to hate you.

 

[Analyzeit]

Go out in a burst of flames and infamy, as KontrollerX said Nope. Fvck em. Yeah you missed out on 1 hard luck, there's more in the sea especially since soon your jumping right into another ocean.

One of the main rules i live by is "Shut the fvck up" hell i don't even tell my best friends what i did unless i don't care if its spread, I know some people find this hard but no one need to know especially a female friend, i mean you honestly told a female friend about all the sh!t you got up to, as you may have noticed women gossip like crazy and there is no exceptions.

Don't keep things incredibly low key, keep it like they didn't happen for example

Friend: "Did you sleep with that chick last night"

You: "What chick? I have no idea what your talking about"

Friend: "Yeah you do"

You: "no"

Trust me don't say anything to anyone, your to only one that need to know.


A lot of chicks also won't care about this, you just found one that did there's always next time


You kind of fvcked yourself over a little but it doesn't matter just remember to shutup

Law 2
Never Put to much trust in your friends

and Law 4
Always say less then necessary

 

[Five To One]

Thanks for the solid advice.

I should of known better than to tell someone the things I do, especially a girl. No matter how good of a friend she was to me.

At least I learned from it(the hard way) and wont make that mistake again.

I love being able to see my self-improvement throughout the months.

 

[Big Poppa]

As for your friend: "Keep my name out of your mouth."