BAD REP in highschool

[captain underpants]

so what do you do about a bad rep in highschool
ex.
alot of people hate you and teachers hate you too
how do you go about meeting girls if you know that other people will probably try to ruin it

 

[Analyzeit]

Don't get it in the first place

Other then that your just going to have to use advice on this website and fight your way back to the top so people don't ruin it.

Social Status often overrules even looks in highschool

Your pretty screwed.... lol

One way is to just get out of there met people who don't know what your social status is, join a whole different circle

I have heaps of circles in different towns, okay the ones that have left school are pretty scumbag, and the girls in some of them are pretty damn Slvtty and Trashy but they good fun lol

 

[Exhumed]

Hang out with a friend who has friends from another school, hang out with their friend, their friend's friends...

 

[Captain Harlock]

if your rep sucks you might as well become a total badass with a complete disregard for everyone and everything. You'll get girls then regardless of your status.

 

[captain underpants]

yeah i think the last one will work
i have a bad reputation for being mean and annoying and stupid
but a good reputation for being funny and cool
so i think the badass thing might work
cuz i hate school and have terrible grades

 

[YoungBeezy]

Lol you have to not care, people can only have a reputation for you if you care enough to accept it.

 

[captain underpants]

its not about me cring its about other people i dont know coming up to me and telling me they dont like me
same thing with teachers

 

[Analyzeit]

Captain Harlock is wrong, Don't change who you are, as you said you have a reputation for being stupid and annoying, if you do what he said your going to be a wannabe badass thats stupid and annoying.

People are actually coming up to you, people that you don't know and saying that they don't like you even teachers. Your screwed man... honestly get out of that school, if you can. Change it yourself and if your parents don't let you tell them the truth that practically everyone hates you, why wouldn't they help you change.

Other then that the best tip i can give, is met people that don't go to school or are out of school, that you can start a new reputation with, then if you do stuff with them they probably know other people from your school, and your new mates will be like nah he's really good guy and then this guy will go to back to school and tell his school mates and your reputation will slowly rise, thats probably the quickest way to change your reputation if its that bad the only faster way is change schools

 

[captain underpants]

no ill get the same reputation im going to have the reputation wherever i go
im just wondering if there are any shortcuts and stuff that would make reputation not matter

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

I can't believe I haven't seen anyone telling you to "graduate" as the solution.

I hope you understand nothing in high school matters, social ladder-wise.

After high school:

Girls...
The whores will stay whores.
The bitches will stay bitches.
The used-to-be ugly girls will get hot sometimes.

Guys...
Jocks will never make it big, never go pro (in the sport they were popular for), and will most likely get beer bellies within 2 years... or they will still get the hottest chicks, but they're still douchebags for being frat fags.

Nerds will be able to screw ALL of the hottest chicks in college as long as they... well... stop being nerds.

In other words, high school DOES NOT MATTER.

 

[Analyzeit]

Michele, l'Arcangelo

Did you just tell him to wait for years to get pvssy?? how you know he nt like 9th grade lol u jst told him to wait for years and years, is that good advice??

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

Yeah. That's exactly what I said.

 

[captain underpants]

yeah dude you make alot of sense
the only pvssy i think im getting in the next 4 years is gonna be at summer camp then

 

[Analyzeit]

Wait 4 years, man thats sh!t advice..............

 

[captain underpants]

well it kinda makes sense plus im dropping out in after grade 10
so i can go to community college for 2 years then transfer to am art college so its more like wait 1 and a half years for me

 

[Captain]

I changed my reputation from the annoying creepy kid when I first started high school. It's hard to totally change your reputation, especially if you screwed up badly at first. It'll take time, probably years.

After the summer holidays (or any other school holidays), you get a bit of a clean start. Dumb things you did aren't in the front of everybodys minds.

To help you best, you need to say why people hate you so much.

I was bullied as well, so I started standing up for myself, and ended up being known as quite a badass. I figured it was better to be a jerk than it was to be a nice guy or a weirdo, and I was right. I also decided to stand out. Unfortunately, I did that by being weird, so things still didn't improve, they merely changed. Remember, there is such a thing as bad publicity. Remember that.

Over time, although my bad reputation was fading, it was still there, enough to mean that any chance of success with the girls in my school was permanently dashed. Field trips and excursions and any trip where you meet girls from other school are very good. Your reputation isn't tarnished with them. Being seen with them by people from your school will help to fix your reputation within your school.

I only really stopped doing stupid things socially at my school until my last year. Normally, one or two things can be forgiven, but if you have a bad rep, it'll just remind people of what you have done in the past. You need to stop making the mistakes you have been.

Work out. Eat a lot of protein, get 8 hours of sleep a night, and lift heavy. Stick to it. It'll get the girls after you and the guys respecting you. It's extremely potent in high school.

Learn how to act with women (read sosuave), and don't do anything stupid. Dress better than everyone else and don't bit a victim of the latest trend.

Accentuate your best attributes. Befriend the guys, don't just concentrate on girls, that's very important in high school (not that it's not important in the outside world.) The more friends you have, the more parties you'll be invited to you, and the more people you will meet.

Finally: I can answer your question better if you say exactly why you're not liked.

 

[captain underpants]

well basiclly
i was rejected early on starting in about 3th grade for being different because
i cant read social skills. i made jokes that others took offence to and didnt fit in. i didnt get rejected that bad i always found a group of friends until i went into 6th ggrade in a private school and everyone rejected me( everyone in the school literally) I then became more aggressive as a defense when i meet new people
over the past 4 years or so ive become more and more rejected and more and more aggresive torwards people.
almost all teachers in my school that know me hate me
most kids in my school talk behind my back about how im a douche bag and other stuff
i only have on friend at school right now and then a few acquaintances
and then a few very unnattractive girls who only like me for my looks but dislike the way i act
and my mom disapproves of some masculine attitudes and actions i partake in
and my dad walked out a week or two before 13th brithday
i am very rejected wich leads to aggresion and back to rejection and a bad rep so now the only place im ever good with people and have a good rep is summer camp and in other places outside of schools
i get rejected because of the aggresion and because people think im dumb

 

[Captain Harlock]

don't worry too much about it, if you can't make friends at school you can still do it at other places. You seem to be able to.