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Bad night. Anyone had one of these before?!??

happyhourhero

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Anyone ever had a bad night?? Ya i never do either. Oh wait i just did.

i went out tonight and chicks were into me, i was doing things right and my head told me everything i should do, i just couldn't get my body to make the move or ask for the info. And it's nights like these that piss me off sooooo bad. Nothing really every gets to me, except nights like tonight when i like my inner p*ssy get the best of me.

So if anyone who's had a night like this could give me an amen or any kind of aknowlegement it would be cool. And any positive thoughts on moving past this horrible night would be helpful

Trying to move on
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

icepick

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You say these chicks wanted you, but I don't think that you TRULY believed it. Think about it, if you believed it, there would be no fear in getting info/making moves/whatever because you would know that it was a sure thing.

So why didn't you believe?

Solve that problem, and you are that much better off.
 

Demon of the Fall

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Dude I hear you. I just has a bad night miself. I went clubbing with my friends and I couldn't make any moves... It was so horrible, I just felt like the biggest loser. I did make one move though, I put my hand on this girl's hip but then she took it off. Thing is later she came dancing with me but then I felt so down I couldn't go with the flow...

Two weeks ago when I went clubbing I had the best time, girls were all over me. But now I feel like ****. It's just weird cuz I couldn't detach myself last night, I was too self-aware and chicks so it.

So yeah I know what you mean man.
 

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wingman

have a wingman, or wingmen, good ones will encourage and motivate you to make a move on the night.

or have a few drinks to 'loosen up' a little.

and, hey we all have our bad nights, just keep your chin up!
 
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