"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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First, a personal story. Many years ago I met a girl named Abby. She was lovely. I loved a 1000 things about her, mostly her face, like most of us do with a woman. We dated, went out several times, I was absolutely smitten.

I bought some concert tickets, and gave her a call to set up the date to go. The convo went something like this:

Abby: " Jason, I've been meaning to talk to you........I really like you, but I don't really think we have enough in common, and I don't think we should see each other again"

Me: " this is kinda sudden, I thought you liked me"

Abby: I do like you, you're a terrific guy, I just don't think it will work"

Me: " have you met someone else?" Abby: " no, I just don't think we have enough in common, and I think it would be better if we could just be friends"

Me: " fine, have it your way" I hung up.

Ok, I was rejected........no doubt has happened to many here, and I'm sure this sounds familiar. At first I was flabbergasted, then angry, then went through the usual self doubt crap...........If I had only done so and so.........

Rejection beats the hell out of us because we cant find anyone else to blame......it always comes back on ourselves.

Now, why this story? Because I learned the hard way, that women (even the ones who don't look all that great) have an incredible cruel streak. They will ditch a guy for no good reason, just because they feel like it.

So, what can we do? The answer is, we must become even crueler.......no, it doesn't mean that you treat a woman like dirt. But you must always, at all times, keep her wondering if you are on the verge of ditching her.

Newspapers know that feel good stories are boring...........bad news sells.

You must be bad news to a woman at all times...........keep her wondering, guessing, mystified. Don't return calls, or texts. Don't give gifts on sweetest day. Don't do her favors.

I love history. I would rather read about Josef Stalin than Mohandas Gandhi. Stalin was a total bastard, and more interesting.

You must be a Stalin in the world of romance........always be enigmatic, hard, impossible to figure out.

Become a bad news sells man..........because a good news man will get dumped every time

Best of luck
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"you must always, at all times, keep her wondering if you are on the verge of ditching her. "

This I dont agree at all. If a guy makes me feel this way , I would just move on. Some girls might buy into this but some would notice you are just playing with her emotions.

In my perspective as a woman, I think this girl has some reasons that she cant tell you. I have said the same thing to some guys before : "you are great but i just dont think this will work"- and the real reasons behind which i couldn't tell them include "they are too old" / "too short"/ "too talkative" / "too arrogant" / " i have met someone better" (but i would probably still say i haven't) / "nothing in common" (even though we seem to have a lot of spark -that's because i m good at faking)

I never fell for a guy whos emotionally unavailable / has a bad boy streak - for me, its either you click, or you don't. I will always choose someone warm and compatible over someone whos stone cold / distant/ acting like a player.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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JoanofArc said:
"you must always, at all times, keep her wondering if you are on the verge of ditching her. "

This I dont agree at all. If a guy makes me feel this way , I would just move on. Some girls might buy into this but some would notice you are just playing with her emotions.
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yes, you are quite special aren't you :p not like other girls, right?

women ALL say this, but they still do the opposite. in my personal experience whenever the girl felt safe in the relationship, she tried to play the power game and tried to control me. the more distant i became the more clingy they became. sometimes i wonder if women even live on this planet. they all have their delusional theories about themselves and the world, but when it comes down to action, they forget it all and go in 100% animal instinct.

guys, want a stable LTR (or even a reliable FB)? give them a little care and a lot of drama and they will love you for it.
 
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