"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A girl im working on loves the movie Crash, and highly recommended it to me... I went to see it with a friend, and i thought it was a horrible movie. No good plot... no sence of direction. (critics loved it... but i thought there was no point)

Everyone was racist, and the two nonracist people kill eachother.

Me and my friend made a joke, "I loved everyone equally, but now im racist!" Kinda like a spishak comercial.

Anyway, Im not quite sure what to say next time i see her. I am fairly sure that she will ask about what I though. Should I just straight up say the movie sucked?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yes say:

In a serious face

"i hated it i dont think our realationship is going to work out if you like such bad movies"

Pause Pause Pause look her straight in the eyes

"I think we should break up"

Then give a half smile.

She should laugh. I know you guys arent dating but just do it.
 

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What kind of thread is this. This is like me making a thread askin how do I jackoff.
 

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the racism is what made it great as it is like a documentary of today
 
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