"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bad luck, curiosity killed the ****in' cat

NeedToImprove

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ran into the blog of my ex by chance in the wrong day at the wrong time...

guess what, saw a photo of her kissing this guy, who i dont think is much superior to me or maybe he is but i dont think

anyway i feel like **** now, and i wanna show this ***** what she's missing lol




oh the love birds arent they cute

or NOT :down:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ethnomethodologist

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dundun dundun

Onitis this be,
you've got to see,
this be nothing important
to you nor me.

Why go all stalker on your ex dude?

Why get depressed?

Why not fuel that energy inside of yourself. Pretend you are going to show your girl NOW? Go buy a camera, even a disposable...

Go out to a club and start acting goofy. Pretend EVERYBODY there is your best friend. No matter what they say to you, pretend you are their bratty little brother.

There's got to be some way you feel great. Emulate the world into that setting. Remember the nerd who went off into the world as though it was an RPG and he gained experience from certain 'battles' he had in the world?

I can't find the guy, wish he had a blog. It was an amazingly funny idea that would be awesome to play. Going online wouldn't even be rest, it would be like sitting down getting ideas for the next rush of experience...

Now stop caring, the dudes too lazy to pluck his eyebrows, go out into public, and squeeze some pimples onto da biotches out there!
 

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whenever I see or talk to an ex.. it happens from time to time.. or hell, evena girl I am talking to now.. I always imagine her getting ****ed senseless by another guy.. even getting gangbanged, the whole nine... because it won't get any worse than that..
now that that's out the way, nothing you tell me will come as a shocker to me


her: "oh such and such and I had a great time, we held hands, etc..."

Me: "Damn, that's it?"

Her: What do you mean by that?

Me: Oh nothing.. nothing at all
 

T Money

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get yourself a new girl dude.

Next her.

You can find someone who makes you feel right, not the other way around.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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backbreaker

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metalfortress.. that was low, that was a really low blow..

to each his own.. what floats your boat might sink mine

At least he had the balls to post a pic of his ex

Now, in all honeslty, she doesn't do it for me, but that's MY opinion that I keep to myself, or would have at leat
 

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she is fugly, u can do better son!!:cheer:
 

ethnomethodologist

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backbreaker's getttin called out, sahhhn!!

I want to know how a DJ deals with ingrates that go around teaching your friend AFC respect.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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