"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bad looking guys and good looking guys: how do good looking guys game

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so in highschool looks matter alot more inside highschool than later on in life,
so we know that good looking guys and average guys handle women differently when gaming alot of what is covered here is targeted torwards average looking or below average guys in highschool how would a good looking guy in highschool go about gaming.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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captain underpants said:
how would a good looking guy in highschool go about gaming.
Exactly the same as a lesser guy. Looks don't change your actions, they change the reactions of others. Good looks will make girls more receptive to everything you do.
 
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nah brah i heard that you cant use stuff like ****y funny before and some other strange rules i was just wondering what anybody else had
 

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good looking guys can be a little more giving of their power in HS.
they also should tone down the ****iness or else they'll look like an jerk.
 

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Crazy Asian said:
good looking guys can be a little more giving of their power in HS.
they also should tone down the ****iness or else they'll look like an jerk.
Although a good looking guy is more likely to get away with the occasional dumb AFC moment than an average guy, you should still keep your guard up.

So yes, you can give away a little more power than an average looking DJ, but it will not benefit you in any way, it will only hurt you.

Don't let your DJ skills slide just because you're good looking/suddenly rich or famous/whatever.

About the ****iness making you look like a jerk: too much ****iness will always make you look like a jerk (whether that's a good thing or bad thing depends on the situation) no matter how good or bad looking you are.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Good looks is an attraction switch. If you think you're good looking, you can start with qualification. This might not work if the girl you're trying to get is much hotter, 10. If you're not good looking, you start by attracting the girls.

Looks don't matter, looks do matter. It's all in semantics; they are both right.

Does it help to get a job if you have a degree? yes. Can you become a millionaire without a degree? yes. So, does it matter? Yes. Does it not matter? yes.
 

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i can relate to your statement cause i'm an average guy and i have noticed girls checking me out several times but it does not affect my game. What i do is hook them with my personality instead of relying on my looks. That reminds me of a girls who i attracted just by taking to her cause she definitely did not notice me by my looks.
 
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