"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bad knees

Bling

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My grandfather had bad knees, my father has bad knees. At a young age, I've felt knee pains--so chances are, I will have knee problems. Since I don't go to the gym, I don't squat--but in the future, I plan to go to the gym and squat. I've heard squatting is bad for people with bad knees.

Is there anyway to get better knees, or squatting without hurting my knees worse?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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PoloBlue

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here are a few tips:

>dont do high impact exersizes like running, instead do bicycling, or walking and always wear shoes with good soles and with good support

>if you do run / jog , you should run on a dirt track instead of asphault / cement surfaces and wear a good pair of running shoes that will absorb the impact

>being overweight also puts extra stress on the knees, so try to maintain your weight and dont get too heavy.
 

NYtomb

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I have good knees and hardly ever run on the street or asphalt. I run on trails or on a treadmill but only twice a week max. I mix my cardio up wtih the elliptical, stair stepper and some swimming to get results without beating on my knees.
Also go to a running shop to get sized up for shoes if you dont know what you are doing.
When I put on some weight my normal shoes werent cutting it so I bit the bullet and paid extra at the shop (couldve got them cheaper on line) for some Brooks Beast. Runs were easier and my posture felt better in addition to my body not feeling any weird aches.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Not Quite There

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My knees are completly wrecked, 4 screws in the left one, and I've had numerous operations on the cartilage in both.

surprisingly, I can still do squats, and haven't experienced any pain in them when doing them, but I haven't been doing them for a great amount of time.


I'm aware that squats can be bad for the knees, but its a bit of a catch 22, because obviously having stronger leg muscles is good for them because it takes the strain off the joint.
 
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