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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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Bad idea? sisters

SikWitIt

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Ok so my ex-gf has a little sister she's 17 and ex is 19, so we broke up like last year in november but she call's me every now and then out of the blue for some reason.

So me and her little sister caught up to each other an have been talking an well we might just get together is that a bomb waiting to blow?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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immrtlwun

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Terrible idea. You know they probably tell each other an awful lot. The older sister might do someting to sabotage whatever you and her younger sister have going on.

You might be able to get away with a one night stand or something like that, but i don't think a relationship would work out very well.
 

Panda 2000

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Give it a shot, what have you got to lose, eh?
 

badgm's57

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terrible idea ,hey i did that **** before i didn't mind ,but the older one gets a little pissed when she will she you,but hey at least i got want i want
heh,heh
 

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For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Skilla_Staz

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Are you looking to get some action, or to stay friends with the older sister?

Action? Go for it.

Friends? Steer clear of the sister.
 
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