"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bad first DJ start but with a twist, please help me

Somedude_UK_31

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Hi Guys,

I joined about a month ago as a total AFC, struggling to even say hi to a chick.
First girl I approached and now she won't leave me alone, she even keeps asking me to take her home and I ignore it. She kept bugging me when I'm gonna take her out at least 4 times until I finally did to stop the nagging. She want's to shag me so badly but I don't want a relationship. I mean if my 1st one went so well, imagine what is waiting for me in the future as I get better at this! (DJ way of thinking huh? :D )

Here's the problem, I go out with her and get sucked into some action with her (I only feel her up I don't kiss her) because honestly, I like the hard ons I get :(
She knows a lot of girls, pretty ones, at this place where I met her and frequent a lot. Here are my two issues that I need your help with:

1. Do you think the best way is to tell her I don't want a relationship and see if we can continue having some action? What's the right way to say it to her? Honestly, I'd pick losing her over having to get stuck into a relationship with her.
2. Given the above, how can I keep her without having a relationship with her so I can get to the girls she knows? I see the girls at the place when I met her everytime I go there, but would it cause some unnecessary drama if I chat up some of them?

Your help is very much appreciated.

On a side note, I somehow had the balls on my 2nd approach to go for a female cop, I asked her if her gun was real and if I could play with it...she blushed and walked away so shy like a little girl after giggling and acting all cute, I think she was being the AFC and I was being the boss. :rockon:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Skalioppe

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Fairly standard girl is super keen situation, allows you to leverage the rules of the game, but you have to stipulate them first and offer no compromise. You flirt with her more, talk sexual but keep her at arm's length, then you say "I'd love to fvck you, I think about it a lot but you'll probably go all mental stalker on me. I just don't want complicated or relationship right now." Sit back, ignore for a few days, she'll text you offering the goodies without the baggage and then you bang the arse off her.

You'd be foolish not to.
 

Purefilth

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^^^ this^^^
 
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