"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bad first DJ start but with a twist, please help me

Somedude_UK_31

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Hi Guys,

I joined about a month ago as a total AFC, struggling to even say hi to a chick.
First girl I approached and now she won't leave me alone, she even keeps asking me to take her home and I ignore it. She kept bugging me when I'm gonna take her out at least 4 times until I finally did to stop the nagging. She want's to shag me so badly but I don't want a relationship. I mean if my 1st one went so well, imagine what is waiting for me in the future as I get better at this! (DJ way of thinking huh? :D )

Here's the problem, I go out with her and get sucked into some action with her (I only feel her up I don't kiss her) because honestly, I like the hard ons I get :(
She knows a lot of girls, pretty ones, at this place where I met her and frequent a lot. Here are my two issues that I need your help with:

1. Do you think the best way is to tell her I don't want a relationship and see if we can continue having some action? What's the right way to say it to her? Honestly, I'd pick losing her over having to get stuck into a relationship with her.
2. Given the above, how can I keep her without having a relationship with her so I can get to the girls she knows? I see the girls at the place when I met her everytime I go there, but would it cause some unnecessary drama if I chat up some of them?

Your help is very much appreciated.

On a side note, I somehow had the balls on my 2nd approach to go for a female cop, I asked her if her gun was real and if I could play with it...she blushed and walked away so shy like a little girl after giggling and acting all cute, I think she was being the AFC and I was being the boss. :rockon:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Skalioppe

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Fairly standard girl is super keen situation, allows you to leverage the rules of the game, but you have to stipulate them first and offer no compromise. You flirt with her more, talk sexual but keep her at arm's length, then you say "I'd love to fvck you, I think about it a lot but you'll probably go all mental stalker on me. I just don't want complicated or relationship right now." Sit back, ignore for a few days, she'll text you offering the goodies without the baggage and then you bang the arse off her.

You'd be foolish not to.
 

Purefilth

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^^^ this^^^
 
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