"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Bad Day.

Jerry Maguire

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Ahh, I'm in a crap mood.
It's midnight and I've done absolutely nothing all day.

Recently I've been optimistic after listening to The Blueprint by RSD, but today I've just felt bored, boring, and have been focusing on my lack of social interaction lately.

I guess there are ups and downs, amirite guys?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Mavrick

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Yes, there are ups and downs. You wouldn't enjoy the ups if you didn't have the downs. So, just take them at face value and just remember life stops for no one.

It's all in how you look at it. A positive mind will get you where you want to be and what you want out of life. It's the most attractive of attitudes.
 
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There will always be ups and downs, no matter what. Your best bet is to keep your chin up and a positive attitude. That alone, will get you through just about anything.
 
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