Bad Boys and Immaturity

[Starman]

I have a friend who is a natural DJ (he mostly hooks up because of his looks)

EVERY girlfriend that he has had..dumped him because he gets drunk too much, always fights .. or has accidents (i.e. falling, etc) because of his drinking..

He is your stereotypical Bad Boy..and even shallow immature chicks have dumped HIM for being "too immature" hehe

So for all you newbies/DJ's who are striving for the bad boy image..from my experience..they may get the girl..but can never really Keep them interested long enough...

I also noticed my more "senisble" mature friends..date the same women 2-3 years at a time

anyone else notice this with their friends?

 

[chlywly]

Obviously, bad boy won't work unless you're looking to get a slut in the sack...

If anyone on here is looking for an actual relationship or something with more substance, that requires wisdom maturity, and actual substance to ones personality to be a MAN.

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

What you need to understand is that most of us Bad Boy types don't give a **** about the girls leaving us, anyways.

The guy you described sounds like me....I pull that **** all the time. It's not that I'm trying to be a complete ass; it's just how it goes, ya know?

If the girl can't handle it, then tough titty.......I don't cry about it.

So for all you newbies/DJ's who are striving for the bad boy image..from my experience..they may get the girl..but can never really Keep them interested long enough...

We don't try and keep them interested. We do what we do, and they're free to walk away at anytime. I could care less, most of the time.
Women are disposable, until i want to settle down with a good one.

The Scary thing is I may have found her, though.


The Bad Ass Canadian

 

[Starman]

Well the thing is..he gets all heartbroken whenever the chicks leave him..he feels rejected..

but obviously..at SOME point the bad boy wants to settle down (as you said)..but my point was that even when you have settled down..your bad boy image doesnt disappear..its still there..and might turn off the woman you like.

I also sense women who go for the bad boys are messed up themselves in a way..in that they go for guys who think they are better than the girl..and that to me says the chick doesnt value herself much

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Bad Boys are DJ wannabes. The distinction between the two is command,composure,balance, and confidence.

Command - this differs from control in that command has the same outcome as control but it is managed with less effort.

Composure - Whatever situation a DJ encounters, he handles it with an even stride.

Balance - Bad Boys are notorious for over indulging in things to the point that it could drive people away. Drugs, alcohol, fighting and the like are some of their vices. DJs can encounter the same things but it isn't the cornerstone of their personality.

Confidence - People think that most bad boys are extremely confident. Many are but if you look at some of their actions you can tell that many crave attention and are insecure. The good ones hide this very well, sometimes to the point of not noticing it themselves.

In a nutshell, a DJ has the ability to show his prowess without putting up a billboard.