"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Bacne" problem

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I'm 29 so I know this isn't a puberty problem that will pass. I have somewhat oily skin and sweat a little more than the average person but other than the occasional pimple on my forehead I seem to only get breakouts on my back.

When I shower i use Zest or Johnson&Johnson body wash with one of those bath sponges as well as a scrub brush. I've also tried using Nuetrogena body wash but for doulble the price it made no difference. Anyone have any suggestions?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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bigjohnson

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You might try soaking in a hot tub of Epsom Salts a few times a week. Sounds girly but they say it works wonders. Swimming in salt water helps too.
 

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May sound weird, but I hear coca butter does wonders.

Not the gel, has to be 100% pure cocoa butter.
 

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I had a similar problem and found out it wasn't just regular acne. I found out I had keratosis piliaris. Its a skin condition that has no cure and you basically can't shed dead skin cells fast enough so it builds up and causes what looks like pimples. Theres treatments to help but nothing to completely get rid of them. Hopefully you don't have what I have.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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keratosis piliaris? yikes. i also got "bacne" and its been over 10 years. i just let it be but am afraid to take off my shirt at the beach.
 

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Its simple...what do you do when you have acne on your face? Put some acne medication on it.

So put some acne medication on your back. If you don't have any, I suggest buying from acne.org because they sell their gel in large bottles (you'll go through it fairly fast putting it on such a large area...). Just take a shower at night and rub it into your back. Just be careful though and don't wear any clothing you don't mind ruining because benzoyl peroxide will bleach it. So just make sure you don't mind ruining your PJs and make sure to take a shower in the morning to get it off your back before you wear good clothes.
 

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Another thing to look into is your diet. Many people often see acne as just an external issue. Changing your diet can often work wonders on acne. See my sig, there is a e-course offered there that expands on how acne and diets are related.
 

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If you drink or consume a large quantity of sugary products this could cause a breakout as well.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Consider seeing a dermatologist. You might find an antibiotic that will control it. Or begin an accutane trial.

I suggest talking to a derm. I just got done with accutane and wish I had taken it sooner. It cleared my back up, but I still have some scars and discoloration marks that are slowly fading.
 

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I've spoken to my dermatologist about my bacne and she's prescribed me Minocyclin or something, a Differin gel, and a Benzoyl Peroxide wash. It's getting better!!!
 

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I'm glad that's working for you Cool.

I had all three of those before. I had the expensive version of the minocycline but it was costing $200 a month, but it worked.

I then switched to minocyclin and sadly did not have the same result though it was supposed to be the exact same just generic
 

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i second the fish oil, it will work wonders, it has for me, cleared up both my face and "bacne" a significant amount, nothing i have found has worked better:up:
 
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