"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Back2Basics: Ultimate Newbie Mission

Distant Light

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Lately I realized the world is abundant with having hot women. Went to a graduation yesterday an notice 50%-60% of the women were 7-10. I'm talking about some of the hottest women I've ever seen. An I realize I want to get not decent, not medicore, I want to be awesome with women. I want to be able to be outside an whenever I'm bored I can just create all this fun and have great interactions.

I basically have a straight forward structure...
I'm going to go out 7 days a week.
I'm going to approach 10 sets a day.

My primary goals...
1. Learn how to open conversations with anyone
2. Learn to keep conversation going
3. Learn how to ask for #s
4. Learn phone game
5. Learn to do Day2s
6. Learn to bring her home

I'll probably be doing the newbie mission for about a year or two, an basically just get the experience under my belt. If you don't know me from when I first joined, I used to do Mystery method an it helpped a whole lot. I probably had more success with that structure than any other thing I've learned until now. I always had a hard time say routines because I was incongruent with it.

An so I've now started doing a more Natural game. Thinks to a few people, I've realized you can actually have a structure but still be natural about it. That means no canned material nor routines. (Even though you can still have them) I find the conversations can be more fun than when I used to use canned material an knew basically everything that would be said back to me. So there you have it. I'll post more in a bit...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Microphone Fiend

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you've given good insight and advice in some of my threads and others. Hopefully I can do the same wher I see fit. Good luck and update when you can
 

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I wouldn't go any further than 4 sessions a week and 4 hours a session.

Too much sarging is not good for you.

You need to balance your life out for you to have a healthy lifestyle.

Of the 4 nights, you can of course approach more sets than 10. But i definitely would not go out 7 times a week just to sarge.
 

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I know what your saying...yes I know its kind of extreme but I know all the guys who got real good went through this process. An plus since I have the time to do it might as well.

It will balance over time, because right now the things that I want to be apart of my lifestyle I can't do right now. So basically I'm stuck for the next 2 years an no better thing to do then practice sarging.

I wrote a basic outline on how my days will look an I was about to do daygame 7 days a week and then go clubbing everyday. But I was told I should probably mix up going to the club to other more quiet and lounge type places at night. But right now I can't do this due to school but when I finish school I'll go out and do night game.

The thing is I've been learning this for awhile now an haven't got the real results that guys who are living the lifestyle have. It was almost like I was testing the waters because I never consistently kept sarging. Instead most of my lays came from my social circle an cold approaches I'd still be getting blown out here and there.

But either way this should be fun.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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