"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Back to the game
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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But I know how HARD it can be sometimes to make these kinds of decisions, and THEN, mustering up the intestinal fortitude to go through with it.
And for this, I SALUTE YOU, Comote.
Glad to hear you're on top of things...:rockon:
But that really doesn't make a difference . . . still walking away. Making her jealous????? What's the point. I'm walking away now. If she comes back she comes back and I deal with it then. Until that day . . .
Bring on the dancing girls!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!