Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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But I know how HARD it can be sometimes to make these kinds of decisions, and THEN, mustering up the intestinal fortitude to go through with it.
And for this, I SALUTE YOU, Comote.
Glad to hear you're on top of things...:rockon:
But that really doesn't make a difference . . . still walking away. Making her jealous????? What's the point. I'm walking away now. If she comes back she comes back and I deal with it then. Until that day . . .
Bring on the dancing girls!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!