"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Back to the drawing board - lol

tmpgstx

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So .. think your game is on and then you find that ..


Not all women want to be courted.
Not all women love or want to receive flowers.
Not all women care about how much money you make - or don't make.
Not all women are looking for romance.
Not all women want a commitment before having sex with you.
Not all women have to particularly like you before having sex with you.
Not all women care whether or not they ever set eyes on you again after they've ****ed you.
Not all women care about you either way.
Not all women are insecure, or have low self esteem.
Not all women are easy sluts.
Not all women are "nice girls".
Not all women will believe every damn thing that comes out of your mouth.
Not all women give a **** about your muscles.
Not all women give a **** what you do for a living.
Not all women care whether or not you can win a fight with another guy.
Not all women care if you're a criminal.
Not all women care if you're a drug head.
Not all women want you to stand up for them.
Not all women use you for what they can get.
Not all women expect you to pay for the date.
Not all women expect dinner and a movie on a date.
Not all women feel a need to get to know you.
Not all women need to go on a date with you.
Not all women think confidence matters most.
Not all women tie up with abusers and jerks.
Not all women tie up with nice guys and girly friends.
Not all women need a *****shield to get rid of you.
Not all women wait for you to call the next day.
Not all women find it amusing when you play headgames.
Not all women find it sexy when you strut around like an "Alpha Male".
Not all women find it mysterious or sexy when you stare at them all night but never approach.
Not all women are stupid.
Not all women are intelligent.
Not all women fall for lines.
Not all women want you sauntering up to them at a bar or social gathering.
Not all women want to be hit on.
Not all women need to be married or want a family.
Not all women are liars.
Not all women treat you badly.
Not all women will find you the vaguest bit interesting.
Not all women will find you repulsive.
Not all women will find you sexually compelling.
Not all women think you're funny.
Not all women think you're an *******.
Not all women think you're cute.
Not all women think you're special.
Not all women tell you the truth.
Not all women lie to themselves.
Not all women know what they want.
Not all women are living the life they want to live.
Not all women are sexually responsible.
Not all women give head.
Not all women are prude.
Not all women are naturally curious.
Not all women have goals and ambitions.
Not all women care whether you get off or not.
Not all women care about their own physical appearance.
Not all women are concerned with shopping and other "girly" pasttimes.
Not all women are sexually expressive.
Not all women use sex as a "weapon".
Not all women are compassionate.
Not all women are heartless.
Not all women are sensitive.
Not all women are insensitive.
Not all women enjoy sex.
Not all women are in touch with their femininity.
Not all women are in touch with their sexuality.
Not all women like it when you touch them.
Not all women want to have sex with you.
Not all women think you're a loser.
Not all women dislike sex.
Not all women are self absorbed.
Not all women care if you screw more than one female at a time.
Not all women need to be rescued.
Not all women are subservient.
Not all women are willing to indulge you in your wildest fantasies.
Not all women are willing to deny you fantasy indulgence.
Not all women are survivors.
Not all women are clinging and pathetic.
Not all women need a man to validate them.
Not all women are confident.
Not all women are mature.
Not all women have "daddy" issues.
Not all women are damsels in distress.
Not all women are naturally domestic.
Not all women are femme fatales'.
Not all women are open minded.
Not all women are closed minded.
Not all women give a flying rat's ass what you are even remotely about.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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While I agree everyone is different, and that women are inconsistent. You can never say ALL women are x,y and z, but MOST women ARE similar for the purposes of pick up. If women weren't similar then one guy wouldn't be more successful than another. Plus women are chameleons (phony?), the same woman is one thing to one guy (one she isn't attracted to) and another thing to a different guy (one she is attracted too).
 

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I don't know that one guy really is more successful than another. Alot of the unsuccessful guys could have girls, but they don't showcase their 'product' .. in otherwords themselves.

It all boils down to more inate attraction .. if she is attracted after being exposed to the product, then she can choose to take it or leave it.

I think this holds true for the most part where the guy goes after the girl for a one-nighter or a short-term, but for LTRs it works best when the girl chases you in which case she is exposing you to the 'product' .. that being her, and you can take it or leave it.

In other words, someone's gotta be doing the showcasing to begin with.
 

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ok..........

TMPGSTX,

To start with, you don't know anything about women.

You are either a woman or an AFC.

A fact--------When you turn them up-side down they all look the same.

Now tell me that observation is wrong.

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so what? if you let that bother you how are you going to be a successful dj? if you keep thinking that way that not all woman does this and that..then how are you going to improve? you can't! you are a powerful don juan and you can turn their heads still even if they fall all in the categories of not all woman. think positive not negative. besides woman are attractive to positive men anyway.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Why do people WANT all women to work the same??

REAL men cherish the differences in each woman as a new experience in their lives.

Only chumps who are worried about having enough notches in the bedpost to impress their friends and feel validated would want all women to be layable via the same boring set of "Don Juan tricks".
 

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This is a horrible thread, and I have a feeling that the list above has been copy&pasted from a feminist web site.
 
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