Back to school as a DJ, can things change?

[navyseal2101]

I'm going to start school in a few weeks. Last year I was a total AFC with women and was moderatly popular. Thing is, our school has about 2 6's and a 7 at best. I unfortunatly talked to them as an AFC and they have lost interest prety quick lol. Well anyway, after you **** up like that, is it possible to come back or should I keep doing what i'm doing now and pickup girls from other schools etc. BTW i've cleaned up my act visually alot too and with more confindence I have no problem trying, just dont know if it would be worth it. If anybody has had a similar encounter then please reply.

 

[kdnash82]

School is a tough playground. You go and do one stupid thing, and for the rest of your life you're be remembered as the guy that did that stupid thing.

My point is, even if you're changed your ways, they're still gonna remember you as the guy that did whatever you did to turn them off. This year, play it cool. Learn to become friends with everyone. You don't have to do anything to impress them. Just be social with everyone you see. In time, those girls that turned you down the year before will come around without you having to do anything.

Until they come around, don't press them for anything. You'll know when the time is right. When that time comes, remember everything you read in the DJ Bible.

 

[Scars]

In school: Practice anti-dump's theory. Only go for chicks that are interested in you.

Out of school: Practice pick-up.

 

[navyseal2101]

This is kinda what Iwas thinking. Thing is I screwed up in school with alot of girls and am only now realizing how bad it was. So I guess i'm pretty much out of school gaming. I wish I would have found this site sooo much sooner.

 

[War Against Betaism]

This is kinda what Iwas thinking. Thing is I screwed up in school with alot of girls and am only now realizing how bad it was. So I guess i'm pretty much out of school gaming. I wish I would have found this site sooo much sooner.

Just do it. Girls don't remember what their guy friends did when they were in 2nd grade or 4th grade. I was also in this thinking before I found this site, because I messed up on so much girls I thought it was too late, but most of the girls I messed up with before are the ones that like me now.

 

[Scars]

If there is an obvious change.. people will notice, trust me. Just don't flaunt it, or try to hard. The best way for people to believe something is to here it from other people, not from your mouth. Prove it with your actions.

If you want an insightful story, I have a short one.

I can recall my freshman year of HS. I was the biggest AFC ever. I only had two friends, both were girls. I used to bounce between the both of them having a crush on them, sucking up to them, buying them gifts, obviously not getting any where romantically. Sophomore year, I still hadn't change. Although I had a new set of "guy" friends, still AFC. Junior year, ditched those friends for even cooler ones. Started toughening up a little bit, after getting ****ed over so many times. Now I'm on my Senior year. I'm a completely different person. The same girls I used to be AFC over slobber over my ballsac now. But the thing is, I look back them now and I am like. Wow, I can't believe I wanted that. They seem gross now. I have much higher standards.

If your school is only 6's and 7's.. that could be your problem. Go game some 8s and 9s out of school.. and eventually those 6s and 7s are gonna seem like dog **** to you.

 

[navyseal2101]

Well the 7 is hot, idk your scale but jessica alba is an 8.5 on my scale. I havent rly seen a 9 i dont think. I met an 8 a few weeks ago and shes on the backburner, but she older so idk how that will go. I think it may be the area, b/c finding ppl outside of thier houses is hard for 1 and finding attractive ones is a whole other thing. Most I find outside of school are like walking around town at 10 o'clock at night, and it's hard to talk to them with the cops everywhere telling u we cant stop moving and cant turn around and face eachother and ****. I've yet to see a better than 7 anywhere, and the 7 may be more like a 6.5 rly. Mabye I should move, b/c I dont want to be inexperienced by college. BTW i've just rearranged my scale so my approaches are diff. when it comes to looks. I could pickup uglier girls I guess but thats not even a problem anymore.

 

[Slick101]

Well the 7 is hot, idk your scale but jessica alba is an 8.5 on my scale. I havent rly seen a 9 i dont think. I met an 8 a few weeks ago and shes on the backburner, but she older so idk how that will go. I think it may be the area, b/c finding ppl outside of thier houses is hard for 1 and finding attractive ones is a whole other thing. Most I find outside of school are like walking around town at 10 o'clock at night, and it's hard to talk to them with the cops everywhere telling u we cant stop moving and cant turn around and face eachother and ****. I've yet to see a better than 7 anywhere, and the 7 may be more like a 6.5 rly. Mabye I should move, b/c I dont want to be inexperienced by college. BTW i've just rearranged my scale so my approaches are diff. when it comes to looks. I could pickup uglier girls I guess but thats not even a problem anymore.

I understand where your coming from...

In school whats really important is your reputation....

If you dont have that "foghetabouit" :box:

Make alot of friends... and Look Good ...

Become popular and that cool guy dont ever brag, and always be calm....

My problem was girls were interested (HB 8-9)... However, I didnt know how to act in front of them....

I f'ed up big time... even up until now people tell me... DAMN you could have had those...

 

[ElStud]

Reputation? Slick stop giving advice. If your only objective in High School is to get a 'good' reputation, good job becoming the person everyone else wants you to be and not being able to be yourself at all.

 

[Slick101]

Good Reputation=popularity

Meaning to get the chicks not directed to anything else...

Why is this kid following me everywhere I post....

Buddy hop of ma d!ck:woo:

 

[navyseal2101]

Well, I see you 2 have some talking to do. Anyway Slick is righht in a way but I can get a reputation by being myself right? Certianly conformity isn't the only way to fit in.

 

[sandman6991]

Define being yourself...you get a reputation by simply becoming friends with everyone and being a fun guy for people to talk to...if that's conformity, then color me a conformist

 

[navyseal2101]

Being myself is doing what I want when I feel like it and not doing things that other people say I should do. Im a funny guy, people always laugh when i;m around, I have alot of stories too, thats myself.

 

[Axcell]

Don't try too hard and be yourself. Just be sociable, you will be fine.

 

[eko]

Man.... new school is the best. It's soooo easy to talk to anyone and just do whatever you want because there's so many people on campus. Best thing ever.

Hooked up with a girl the 2nd night of orientation... I think I was the first one in my dorm haha. I got like 20 numbers and like 10 prospects the first few days. On top of the world, man. Easy to be yourself because everyone is in the same boat and new as you are too.

I'm a free bird... can do whatever I want

Just try to be outgoing and sociable at first then it comes just perfectly naturally. You don't even have to be funny, just nice to everyone

I won't be coming here anymore.... I'm who I always wanted to be

 

[navyseal2101]

Yea thing is im not going to a new school, im going to the same school and same people.

 

[Slick101]

Well, I see you 2 have some talking to do. Anyway Slick is righht in a way but I can get a reputation by being myself right? Certianly conformity isn't the only way to fit in.

YES.... Dont copy other fags... do your own thing ... however... getting good grades should be a prior.