"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Back to College Thread. Meeting chicks in class.

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Back to school for me. Loads of hot chicks in all my classes. I've already started planning my techniques.

What have you guys done in the past to meet chicks in your classes. I get tired of asking, and I know they get tired of hearing the same old "What's your major? WHat year are you?" type stuff.

What has worked for you guys? Any pointers or stories would be greatly appreciated.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Kurt the KJ

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You should implement c+f and neg hits in your approach. Try to comment about what they are wearing, etc. A good way is to ask about certain classes, talk about certain students or talk about a certain teacher. If you are in a boring class, then you can start a conversation about the teacher and this is a great ice breaker. Just observe your surrounding environment and use that in approaching.
 

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Try the classic neg-hit:

"I really like your skirt. I've seen about 3 other girls wearing the same thing today!"

Its funny because, within one week of college, I really have seen the same skirt on like 4 different girls. Too true, too true...
 

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has anyone seen this post, ithink it was on sosuave somewhere about college course?
he would go into class a little earlier and have a smile and give attention to one person at a time, etc. very vague inmy head atm. im wondering if anyone knows what articel im talking about and would appreciate it if you knew either the title or the link to the page.
 

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Thanks for the replies guys.

In the past I made the mistake of sitting in the same seat every class. I guess moving around will help. I consider myself attractive and well dressed and groomed, just my conversation worries me.

So things to talk about...

-the teacher, the text book, the homework, the class, majors, (i don't think i'll be able to do the skirt thing.

Also, I'm not racist or anything, I'm white, but for some reason I always get stuck sitting around black girls. LOL. I go to an urban school. Not that I have anything against them, I guess I'm just more attractive to white chicks. I mean these girls are g-h-e-t-t-o.

I just hate sitting in the beginning of class staring around at each other before classs starts. I always like to get to class early so I get a good seat and so I'm not late.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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hope7

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if a girls showing off cleavage, do not yell 'omg! look at those booobs!'
I saw a guy try that the other day, it did not go well.

However, they are probably already friends.
 

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Asking a bunch of questions doesn't work. It only makes you look like every other guy. I used to do this, and I've had little success.

What I'm trying now is a more friendly approach. How do you talk to your friends? Do you ask them a bunch of questions? Usually in conversations with friends you tell little stories and statements. Put in a little ****y/funny, and wait for HER to ask YOU questions. Don't even ask her name. Wait for her to ask for yours first. When she starts asking questions, start a little kino. Once she's giving you IOIs and you've attracted her, then you can start asking questions to build rapport.

You guys should also be careful with negs. They're not meant to be thrown around like candy. You're supposed to use them to lower the b1tch shield on girls that are an 8+ (1-10 scale). If they're friendly from the beginning, using negs will only make you look like an ass.
 

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for the first couple days (or weeks), just say hey (and smile of course) to them.. nothing more nothing less.. be mystery..if you act like clingy or get melt, they are gonna lose their interest quickly..
 

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What I like to do is stand outside the classroom, and if a girl comes and stands outside to, i say the name of the course and go from there
ex:
me: soc 142a?
girl: yeah
me: *comments about class
girl: *responds
then when class is about to start, i introduce myself. I then sit first and have her follow me to sit next to her. That shows confidence. Letting her lead and you follow her to sit next to you makes you seem needy and clingy.

After class, I comment about the class, then suggest if she wants to study or do hw sometime.

if the study session goes well, suggest another hang out activity, like lunch, or icecream, and use kino escalation
 
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