"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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MidnightResistance

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It's been a couple of days since my last post about starting college.

Things are going good with my first girl. It's about time I gave her a call and set up a date as she's definately a good girl.

As I was leaving this HB9 who I have not dared approach (because I don't think I'd have a chance and she'd smite me down) walks right up and starts asking me all sorts of things. On the other side is her HB9 friend who is doing the same (OMG!).
I concentrate most of my answers to the first of the two. The second one breaks off and the first continues to walk with me.

In the conversation I admit to her "Don't tell anyone, but I'm really a big geeky tabletop wargamer." (I had to in order to explain how I met certain people and I couldn't think up a good lie) She looks at me amazed, as if I'm winding her up, sees I'm not kidding, then laughs really loud. But it's not a bad laugh. I'm so confident with it, it's not an issue. She accepts it without a bother.

She seems to be walking with me for a long time, so I ask where she's walking. We walk to where she needs to be and I keep on going (cos what I want is round the corner). To my surprise she lingers a while and takes a time to break off.

I should have asked for her number, but it was only after she'd gone that I realised I may have been getting hit on.
There was lots of eye contact and when I came close to whisper my confession, she didn't move away, although I didn't show any indication that I was interested.

Was I being hit on, or was she just finding out about me like she would anyone else because I'm on her course?

Your thoughts?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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spider_007

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bottom line; she likes you, it's up to you where you want to take it.

you eather ask her for her number and introduce kino

or

you endup in friends zone

it's really upto you.
 

RaWBLooD

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if ur a gamer thats great, but the way u said it made u sound like a anti-social loser
blew ur chances.
 

Smooth Player 056

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It seemed to me like she was into you........i dont nececarilyi think you blew your chances...depends on how u said it
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MidnightResistance

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No seriously, I said it good and I still felt confident and conversation flowed.

Only bad thing is that I've called up my current girl, she turned down the date and her IL levels are practically non existant and I have no idea why.

One day I'm just going to give up trying with women
 
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