"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hey guys, wondering if I'm setting myself up for disaster here. I have dates lined up with three different women Fri, Sat and Sun. I anticipate sleepovers on at least Friday and Saturdays.

I'm concerned that stacking dates without a day's buffer might affect my game. I always sleep terribly when sharing my bed, usually making the next day a write off.

My worry is that i'll be too tired to be any fun. Also, because I'm getting night and probably morning sex, I may not be as aggressive in pursuing sex with the next girl because my **** will already be feeling satisfied from previous girl.

Has anybody ever had a weekend like this? How did you handle it? I'm thinking that from now on I should always put at least a day buffer between dates.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I did this the last two weekends and probably this week too. Its tough, you have to have your ringer off on your cell. Hardest part is trying to end next morning. I got away with just a couple hours to spare before the next date.
Plus you get nothing done in your own life. I think I actually just want to go back to two plates!
 
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I've had 4 dates in one day bro.

This should be cakewalk for you.
 
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I'm 41 dude. Four dates in one day, and one of those women would have to call the paramedics for me.
 
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You'll be fine. I've done it before and it worked out. You'll be spent but it will be a fun weekend.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Good times. I did that a couple weeks ago, except it was monday to thursday. Date monday, stayed over, tuesday I met a girl for lunch, met a girl for drinks and stayed at her place, had another date wednesday night, and then got up to fly to Chicago on Thursday.

Tired as balls but it was fun times. I'd also recommend a buffer but when it happens it happens. Next girl may be surprised when you're just like, whatever, I don't care about getting sex.
 
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Plutoman said:
Next girl may be surprised when you're just like, whatever, I don't care about getting sex.
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This is one positive I can see from the whole thing.

Otherwise, I'm 29 with no cardiac problems to report... just thinking that acting indifferent about sex on Sunday night is best case scenario. The worst? See, Saturday girl is pretty wild. I'm concerned she will deplete me of all my masculine energy and leave me as a low-testosterone beta-type for Sunday girl, who is a new plate.
 
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Albatross953 said:
I did this the last two weekends and probably this week too. Its tough, you have to have your ringer off on your cell. Hardest part is trying to end next morning. I got away with just a couple hours to spare before the next date.
Plus you get nothing done in your own life. I think I actually just want to go back to two plates!
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Poor you, poor you. You sure have it rough, but I feel for you man. Hate when that happens. I think I will have to scale down on my plates too. :rockon:
 
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Ideally I think you'd want the girl you most want to lay schedule for Friday, next in line Saturday and the least Sunday. So if you strike out with the first one or two you will be all ready for the last resort Sunday. Of course one of them could cancel.

My advice is since nothing is a given, just try to lay the Friday girl and see what happens down the line. Let's say you do an all nighter sexcapade with Friday girl. There's no reason to think you have to do an all nighter or with Saturday etc.

I have had girls that come all at once or stints of nothing at all. That's how it usually goes. I wish I could just pick the girl I really want and have sex with her without every having to doubt it, then have sex with her whenever I want. That's how women tend to have it, not men. It never seems to work that well and simple-is a hook up going to happen, will she even keep the date, can I just contact her a few days later and guaranteed sex, is she even the girl that I really want to hook up with etc? It's all so freaking uncertain with women and I hate that part.
 
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Poor you, poor you. You sure have it rough, but I feel for you man. Hate when that happens. I think I will have to scale down on my plates too. :rockon:
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Yeah, I know that sounded ridiculous.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Update for those who care

Friday: History with girl but never had sex. F-close. No sleepover!!!
Saturday: Second date. BJ-close. Sleepover.
Sunday: First date. Second base. Head first. Like Pete Rose. No sleepover.

Survived just fine. Today was tough but I kind of just embraced the lazy Sunday of it all, chugged a red bull mid-day, hit the gym, and was back to A-game for Sunday's girl.
 
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Good skills!

Just try to be a little bit considerate and wash your d!ck properly when each girl leaves :up:
 
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