"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Back Pain From Lifting Weights

ROOKIE OF THE YEAR

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My back hurts for over six months already from lifting weights, especiallly in the lower back area. Now I am joining muay thai class and i need to prevent this from happening, but i really want to continue to lift.

Anybody had experience like this for atleast a six months straight? That strain or really tightness feeling, in the lower back area?

My friend had a case like this for about a year, and it got better because he began doing back exercising.

Any suggestions? Cuz i dont really want to give up martial art practice and weightlifting.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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if its more than just soreness, then you might have a serious problem and need to see a physiotherapist.
 

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lat-pull down. and sometimes i lift some heavy stuff from the ground using my back strength instead of legs
 

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Originally posted by ROOKIE OF THE YEAR
lat-pull down. and sometimes i lift some heavy stuff from the ground using my back strength instead of legs
damn go see a physiotherapist now.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by ROOKIE OF THE YEAR
lat-pull down. and sometimes i lift some heavy stuff from the ground using my back strength instead of legs
Pulldowns shouldn't do anything bad to your back unless you're trying to reverse-deadlift the bar down. And the lifting heavy stuff might or might not cause back pain. Do you lift with your lower back rounded, or more with your lower back straight and lift it deadlift style, with spinal erector and hip flexors?

At any event, if it's been happening for this long, I'd say go get an MRI and make sure you don't have a bulging disc or two.
 
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