"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Back pain and Posture

BowTie

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I don't have the best back in the world and I would like some tips and exercises to remedy back-pain and posture.

Things I do currently for posture:
1) Keep reminding myself about posture when I notice it
2) Walk as if there is a rope tied to my head keeping my head aligned correctly (keep hearing this technique)
3) I used to do some foam rolling and will probably start that up again.

I'm also going to start doing deadlifts again, I started doing them but stopped since I had terrible form and was afraid to injure myself.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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hi mate.i also have back problems and wellthere are a lot of things that you can do.
1. buy a lumbar support ..they really help
2.learn to flex your abs all the time..its hard at first but youll get the hang of it..
one way to think of it is like when there is a hot girl in front of you and you wanna look slimmer to impress her,you try to take your belly in right? like that

4.keep your shoulders back and down
5.visit the website below, the owner is a bodybuilder who is also suffering from back pain , he has a lot of good tips for people like us
http://scoobysworkshop.com/preventing-lower-back-pain/
http://scoobysworkshop.com/posture/

6.swimming especially freestyle, it has done wonders for me
7.lose weight
8.physiotherapy books can be *cough* borrowed from the internet for free
 

Jack Wealthy

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First two tips are bad. A lumbar support is like orthotics, a bandaid solution which remedies the pain symptom but makes the problem- weakness- worse. Tensing your abs will imobilize your hips and stop them from rotating completely.

Work on kettlebell swings, dead lifts, single leg deadlifts and pullups. Shoulder blades down, back and together on all. Pinch you ass cheeks to extend your hips on the first two. Train back 2:1 with pushing exercises. Work on improving mobility of your hips and ankles. Stretch you hip flexors, hammies and glutes to try and get a couple more degrees ROM in tour hips. When you get enough mobility, you will place less stress on your back during movement. Increased stability of the posterior chain will stop muscles from fatiguing and causing pain and even out imbalances.
 

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Jack Wealthy said:
First two tips are bad. A lumbar support is like orthotics, a bandaid solution which remedies the pain symptom but makes the problem- weakness- worse. Tensing your abs will imobilize your hips and stop them from rotating completely.
Agree on the first, but I think he means just stabilizing the abs and not letting them hang. Not necessarily tensing them.
 

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get someone who REALLY understands the deadlift to coach you in correct form, or dont lift heavy, or you can REALLY mess up your back. Ditto regular barbell squats.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Epimanes

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I had a back injury like 18 years ago when i was a stucco labourer... went to a chiro who hurt me even more not long after injury so I stopped going. years later... after just living with the lower back pain (became just a constant dull lower back ache that never went away) i went into a new chiropracting place and they had some new technology and did a digital nerve scan on my spine and located my trouble areas with it. AFter my first adjustment my lower back pain from 15 years ... was gone. Go see a chiro ... get them to nerve scan you to pinoint the vertibres that are causing the pain. It may help alot ... it did to me.

Epi
 

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It is very sever pain and back pin posture this method related to the chines treatment.Most of the people adopt such method in order to get the better relief but this method takes a lot time to cover up the pain.
 

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this might be a bit strange but i found out that doing barbell squats with perfect form actually healed my back o_O
i don't know the science behind it ...but it's real....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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