"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mercenary

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I started using this site while I was in college to help me improve my skills with women and people in general. That was 5 years ago.

After sharpening my skill, I eventually snagged a terrific woman and had a serious relationship with her for about 3 years (almost married her). Now that relationship is over and I'm looking to get back into the game.

But so much has changed. I'm older, chubbier, and in a new city. I used to prefer dating women 5-10 years older than me, but now I'm looking for a younger woman.

I know other men on here have gone through similar experiences. Any thoughts/Tips? I used to go to bars every weekend in search for prey (and was very successful), but I may have gotten rusty after having a reliable source of sex for 3 years.

I have a date this weekend with a younger woman. Do I just pick up where I left off?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Just pick up were you left off. It's like riding a bike - you don't forget how to ride. Just beware of being too needy - they smell that a mile away.
 
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kingwilliam

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I agree, Ballie, one of the easiest mistakes to make when coming out of a relationship is acting like you are in a relationship.......

Be mysterious, funny, and keep your distance emotionally.....you'll be fine. Just remember that girls like a challenge. Its not that they are thinking about all this, its a natural thing.
 
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DJArlington

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you want the honest truth. just treat them badly, if you get back into a relationship, dump the girl at least once. you have to let them know you have all the power.

act like you don't give a hoot about them, develop your own passions and hobbies and you'll be good to go. be passionate about your work, education, life, etc. you don't NEED a woman.

i'm trying to get myself to this state of mind.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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NewMan

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I been through the same thing several times. including right now

get back to working on yourself - body, mind and soul, and get out there. don't beat yourself up if your not in the 'game' from the get go - may take some time to develope that killer instinct again.
 
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