"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Back in the game..

BootsOfEscaping

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I am 31 and back in the game after a LTR of 6 years just broke up. Any tips on getting back out there? I hit up some clubs with friends which was cool but I have a hard time talking to hot girls, not because they intimidate me but because they are so damn STUPID! ha.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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cave dweller

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hobby..........

Hey,

Get a:

Hobby..........
A good job.........
Some friends...............
A life.........

Then, the women will seek you out.............

cave dweller
 

Luveno

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Cave dweller speaks the truth.
 
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