"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Albatross953

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So if you live long enough life will challenge you. I was a member here for a few years and it really helped me. Then in 2015 my career grenades, and honestly it was really tough. Worked construction for a couple of years just to bring money in. Forgot about women, and just tried to rebuild. Things are better now, killing it at a sales job. Time to re-engage.

I'm rusty as heck. Went out with a bumble match twice, seemed to go well. Now ghosted. That's a surprise, five years ago I would have bed her.

So here's the plan...

Lean out the construction muscle.
Reread the library.
Get off bumble.
Start talking to people in real life when ever possible.
Drop the expectations on any one woman.


Any other thoughts?

Also I see epi has a recent thread, sorry about your wife bud. That's not right.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Epimanes

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Hey man... welcome back! Yeah.... writing been on the wall a while... i was just blinded... but... things are changing in a good way so.. wtf ever lol.. gotten a couple lays from dating apps.. chatted to alot of women around my work.. just havin fun. I have a whole new energy about me that has ladies lookin now.. so... just running it and seeing where its all gunna go.
 

DEEZEDBRAH

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So if you live long enough life will challenge you. I was a member here for a few years and it really helped me. Then in 2015 my career grenades, and honestly it was really tough. Worked construction for a couple of years just to bring money in. Forgot about women, and just tried to rebuild. Things are better now, killing it at a sales job. Time to re-engage.

I'm rusty as heck. Went out with a bumble match twice, seemed to go well. Now ghosted. That's a surprise, five years ago I would have bed her.

So here's the plan...

Lean out the construction muscle.
Reread the library.
Get off bumble.
Start talking to people in real life when ever possible.
Drop the expectations on any one woman.


Any other thoughts?

Also I see epi has a recent thread, sorry about your wife bud. That's not right.
Crush it all: OLD, tinder, bumble, pickup, social circle, etc.

Attend free tour. Do minimum 3 approaches per day. Use digital options but as a fallback. 10x IRL pickup then cuck apps. It is low hanging fruit and cratered SMV for the most part. The outlier exists. Do the work.

Chase excellence. Women are far from purposeful. They are for sport. #nextSet #micdrop is the best approach. At midnight, new girls are turning 18 everyday.

Act accordingly. The chick who ghosted is 1 cheese burger and or broken condom away from expiration. A new egg drops every month and the wall approaches with each passing moment. Do the work.

Learn game. Every chick is practice. Women are sexual commodities and should be treated as such. I have the approach, blow me or blow me out. Mode1 style. Learn flash game. Go direct or indirect. Acquire competence. Generate new leads and prospects. Smash or next. Repeat till dead or **** falls off.
 
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