"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A long while ago, I made some posts about this Japanese-American model I was dating. How she was going overseas to study abroad, LDR's, LT-LDR's, etc.

Basically, everyone here told me to back out. But, I pulled a Hail Mary (one of the greatest of my gaming career) and went for it anyway. And it worked. She came back, we were engaged, etc.


Here's the thing - now, we're broken up. She lost her mind a bit (I'm really thinking it's nerves, and there were a couple moments of infidelity on both our sides... her's first, unfortunately) and things kind of got out of hand. So, now we're struggling with even speaking to each other. But, there's still that love there. I know a lot of DJ's might scoff at that idea, but there are special girls out there who deserve some patience, I think.

We're trying to talk about working things out and getting back to good, but there are some emotional problems standing in our way.


Any thoughts on getting the ex back on good terms? Or for at least one more fvck? What should I do to get my foot in the door? Gangi games? I'm looking for all advice.



BUT IN THE MEANTIME. I want back in the game. This girl took me out of it for over a year. Now, it's time to get back up in that saddle while I'm working things out with the ex, and get into some panties in the meantime. Nothing serious, preferably not even each others' names :whistle:

I have a gay roommate who invited my best friend and I out to a gay bar tonight. My best friend has been my wingman for a few years now (dude's a rock star), and he's recently single as well. So, tips for someone like me cold approaching chicks for some bang in a gay bar?


Thanks, DJ's. It's good to be back. Let's get some play.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yuma said:
A long while ago, I made some posts about this Japanese-American model I was dating. How she was going overseas to study abroad, LDR's, LT-LDR's, etc.

Basically, everyone here told me to back out. But, I pulled a Hail Mary (one of the greatest of my gaming career) and went for it anyway. And it worked. She came back, we were engaged, etc.


Here's the thing - now, we're broken up. She lost her mind a bit (I'm really thinking it's nerves, and there were a couple moments of infidelity on both our sides... her's first, unfortunately) and things kind of got out of hand. So, now we're struggling with even speaking to each other. But, there's still that love there. I know a lot of DJ's might scoff at that idea, but there are special girls out there who deserve some patience, I think.
There are special girls out there. I just don't think they're the girls who are unfaithful to you. Those rare happy couples you see in the world usually don't have stories that start with "After my girlfriend cheated on me, I knew we'd be together forever."


Any thoughts on getting the ex back on good terms? Or for at least one more fvck? What should I do to get my foot in the door? Gangi games? I'm looking for all advice.
You sound like a heroin junkie begging for one last hit. Gross.
 

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"There are special girls out there. I just don't think they're the girls who are unfaithful to you. Those rare happy couples you see in the world usually don't have stories that start with "After my girlfriend cheated on me, I knew we'd be together forever."

^^^^^
well said iceberg.....
 

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Don't get hung up over the past. Leave your ex to as side dish for now.

Get on with life, there's plenty more amazing girls who you'd only get to meet, if you created those opportunities.

The less attention you give your ex, the more her interest level will start boiling again once she sees that you're out living the life.
 

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Allurre said:
Don't get hung up over the past. Leave your ex to as side dish for now.

Get on with life, there's plenty more amazing girls who you'd only get to meet, if you created those opportunities.

The less attention you give your ex, the more her interest level will start boiling again once she sees that you're out living the life.

Thanks, man. That's exactly where my head is right now. I don't want to go crawling back to the ex. Do I feel like toying with her a bit? Yeah. Getting her emotions a bit ruffled? Sure. Getting her to try and crawl back to me? That's always fun.

And I'll be fvcking San Francisco in the process.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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