"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A long while ago, I made some posts about this Japanese-American model I was dating. How she was going overseas to study abroad, LDR's, LT-LDR's, etc.

Basically, everyone here told me to back out. But, I pulled a Hail Mary (one of the greatest of my gaming career) and went for it anyway. And it worked. She came back, we were engaged, etc.


Here's the thing - now, we're broken up. She lost her mind a bit (I'm really thinking it's nerves, and there were a couple moments of infidelity on both our sides... her's first, unfortunately) and things kind of got out of hand. So, now we're struggling with even speaking to each other. But, there's still that love there. I know a lot of DJ's might scoff at that idea, but there are special girls out there who deserve some patience, I think.

We're trying to talk about working things out and getting back to good, but there are some emotional problems standing in our way.


Any thoughts on getting the ex back on good terms? Or for at least one more fvck? What should I do to get my foot in the door? Gangi games? I'm looking for all advice.



BUT IN THE MEANTIME. I want back in the game. This girl took me out of it for over a year. Now, it's time to get back up in that saddle while I'm working things out with the ex, and get into some panties in the meantime. Nothing serious, preferably not even each others' names :whistle:

I have a gay roommate who invited my best friend and I out to a gay bar tonight. My best friend has been my wingman for a few years now (dude's a rock star), and he's recently single as well. So, tips for someone like me cold approaching chicks for some bang in a gay bar?


Thanks, DJ's. It's good to be back. Let's get some play.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yuma said:
A long while ago, I made some posts about this Japanese-American model I was dating. How she was going overseas to study abroad, LDR's, LT-LDR's, etc.

Basically, everyone here told me to back out. But, I pulled a Hail Mary (one of the greatest of my gaming career) and went for it anyway. And it worked. She came back, we were engaged, etc.


Here's the thing - now, we're broken up. She lost her mind a bit (I'm really thinking it's nerves, and there were a couple moments of infidelity on both our sides... her's first, unfortunately) and things kind of got out of hand. So, now we're struggling with even speaking to each other. But, there's still that love there. I know a lot of DJ's might scoff at that idea, but there are special girls out there who deserve some patience, I think.
There are special girls out there. I just don't think they're the girls who are unfaithful to you. Those rare happy couples you see in the world usually don't have stories that start with "After my girlfriend cheated on me, I knew we'd be together forever."


Any thoughts on getting the ex back on good terms? Or for at least one more fvck? What should I do to get my foot in the door? Gangi games? I'm looking for all advice.
You sound like a heroin junkie begging for one last hit. Gross.
 

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"There are special girls out there. I just don't think they're the girls who are unfaithful to you. Those rare happy couples you see in the world usually don't have stories that start with "After my girlfriend cheated on me, I knew we'd be together forever."

^^^^^
well said iceberg.....
 

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Don't get hung up over the past. Leave your ex to as side dish for now.

Get on with life, there's plenty more amazing girls who you'd only get to meet, if you created those opportunities.

The less attention you give your ex, the more her interest level will start boiling again once she sees that you're out living the life.
 

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Allurre said:
Don't get hung up over the past. Leave your ex to as side dish for now.

Get on with life, there's plenty more amazing girls who you'd only get to meet, if you created those opportunities.

The less attention you give your ex, the more her interest level will start boiling again once she sees that you're out living the life.

Thanks, man. That's exactly where my head is right now. I don't want to go crawling back to the ex. Do I feel like toying with her a bit? Yeah. Getting her emotions a bit ruffled? Sure. Getting her to try and crawl back to me? That's always fun.

And I'll be fvcking San Francisco in the process.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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