Back in the game. need help with older girl.

[dmatter]

hey guys if youve read my other posts i had broken up with em ex gf over a month now and at first it reallly hurt but im honestly over it. I guess time really does heal all. but anyways onto more important matters
There is this girl where i work who is 3 years older then me. and we flirt alot it is pretty obvious and lots of touching goes on between the both of us anyways she thought i was real quiet but as we got to know eachother she got to know me and calls me silent but deadly and told me i have game? i play the innocent game... idk. anyways were probably going to hang out tom and i wanted ot take her to the city and just "randomly" come across an ice skating rink and have fun.

now i need some guidlines in order to not screw this up. and some help to get her warm enough and wanting a kiss where i make my move. also when i met her i was with my ex and she doesnt know yet we broke up I didnt tell heryet that we broke up. and i dun plan onto for a while something tells me thats best. anyways any help real soon would be appreciated

 

[Cashew]

Call me a skeptic, but it doesn't seem like you are completely over your ex if you have to mention so at the beginning of your post.

Anyway... that's not super important to providing advice.

Don't tell her you broke up for no reason. In fact, the only way you should tell her that is if she brings it up. Otherwise it doesn't matter. If she brings it up, don't make a big deal out of it. Mention that you broke up a while ago. If she pries further say that it isn't a big deal, you're fine, whatever. Don't get into details. If she's being to nosy, you could try to flip it around on her. Why does she want to know so bad?

As for not screwing things up... you'll be fine. Don't worry so much about it. Just go out there to have fun and she'll have fun too. If you think it's a good time to go in for the kiss, don't hesitate. Just go for it. the longer you think about the more it builds up in your mind and the less likely you are to actually do it or do it with maximum amount of confidence.

Good luck and have fun!

 

[dmatter]

well sirs for those of you that care.... GREAT SUCCESS! everything went according to plan surprisingly. took her ice skating for the 1st time she loved it. it didnt take to long after we met up that I made some joke and had my arms around her on the train and then slowly made my way to her lips. we made out everywhereee and held hands. ohhh Good times. they took pour pics and i bought them and gave one to her. and then we while we were making hout some ***** offered a rose for charity and i felt bad so i bought one and gave it to the grl. anyways we just kept making out and then i sent her home in a cab. and woooh lol best feeling is when a plan goes well. anyways today at work evertyhing was fine bewtween me and her.

shes so much more relaxed and laughs alot moree now. My only concern is that now I may see her too much and shell begin to lose interest but that moment has come yet so i need to prepare and stop her from losing interest in me while its still high. In other wordss i want to keep it up there.

 

[Dannyrt34]

Well since you work with her and you don't have a choice but to see her more often than you'd like. Just be mysterious to her, as in, KEEP UR DISTANCE AT WORK. Don't make her think you don't like her, but make sure you socialize with everyone else more.