"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Back in the game i guess

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So me and my 2 year LTR just broke up yesterday. I feel so lost and confused. Soon i'll be back in the game. I don't want to yet because i just don't feel like doing anything. I just can't imagine the single life anymore. I just don't know what to think about anything. It's hard but i'm trying my best to deal with it and get on with my life. You can post good replies or flame me for posting this or whatever; i just needed to vent. Thanks.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Its all good, dude. I went from an 11 year LTR (6 dating, 5 married), was in the game for a couple of months, then was in a 9 month LTR. Back in the game once again. My advice, don't get caught in some rebound s*it like I did. It'll just cause you pain. Work on yourself ( i.e. hobbies, education, working out, etc. ) until you feel like getting back in the game. Read up on the DJ bible, get your mind right, and then go dominate some PVSSY!
 
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Yeah, breaking up sucks for the first few months. Suffer through the pain and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

You'll get back in the game soon enough.
 
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Just got through a breakup of a 3 year LTR...

Took me 3 months to get over it...

It's not fun, or easy, but whatever you do, don't contact her or try and win her back by talking.. Just makes it hurt way worse... NC is the quickest way to get over it if you know it's done.

Hang in there man, every day gets better.
 
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Thanks guys. It's hard as hell and i'm pretty confused, but I'm also kind of excited i guess. I have a lot to figure out now about myself.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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