"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Back in the game...but seem to be on the bench.

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ManUnited01

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Hey guys,

I have just come out of a 3 year relationship with my girlfriend after she moved to another city. If it weren't for everyone on this site and their advice, I would not have got her in the first place.

Now I call on my fellow brothers to help me in this new stage of my life.

Ever since the relationship ended, I feel like I have lost all inner confidence. I project outer confidence in the way I dress and carry myself, I smile all the time and have no problem talking to new people . I have a great job, am involved in sports, doing well at university but still feel quite empty. I have girls tell me that they or their friends find me attractive but I never feel the same level of attraction towards them, whether it be how they look or their personality. This last relationship seems to have skyrocketed my standards and I end up feeling disappointed every time I meet new women. If I do spot a girl who sparks an initial attraction, she ends up putting a cigarette in her mouth or having an undesirable character.

Would greatly appreciate your help on this matter.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Daddy The Pimp

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You had deep connection with your ex .

Now that you dont have her , you're feeling empty .

You need to get over her . Try to keep your mind occupied with hobbies and other things . Also try to get as many girls as you can . This helped me .

Also , for deeper help , watch this . It may help

Hope you get over it quick . Have a nice sarge :D
 
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