"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Back in the game, any tips?

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WiseGuy99

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I just got out of a long term relationship for 4 years, roughly 3 months ago. I really havent dated much since. I am looking to go out as much as possible to meet as many women as possible. However, most of my close friends don't go out much because they all have LT relationships.

I am willing to go out by myself, but I never did that before. Any advice on going out alone to meet chicks?

Thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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WiseGuy99 : 1st of all, I'm sure you can get one or two of your friends to go out with you on the odd occasion.

2ndly, your social life doesn't only go as far as your friends... go through your phone book and give some people u know a call and ask them what they are getting up to.

I really don't believe that a grown up would still ask a question like this. Need to start using your HEAD and not relying on people on here to do all your thinking for you:)


Laterz...
 
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