Daniel1982
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Being this the first time I went out to sarge since my breakup (3 months ago), I decided to write a field report about it, so here it goes. Me and a friend of mine used to sarge in a Salsa Club that’s near my place about a year ago, long story short, I got a girlfriend and stopped sarging (I know, big mistake :nono: ); he, on the other hand, felt lost without a wingman, and eventually gave up.
Back to present. I called him on Saturday night, told him that I wanted to hang out at the Salsa Club, to which he reluctantly agreed, but he was cool.
We dropped by the club at 11, it was still early, so the club wasn’t that crowded yet. I decided to take this moment, and discuss with him the things that I have learned here on SS, about the importance of the inner game, that even if we didn’t get numbers tonight, at least it would be fun, and we would get some ice cold beers
Finally, after an hour or so, the place started to get crowded, and it was time to ask a girl to dance. The thing that I love about salsa is that it gives you the perfect reason to open a girl by asking her to dance, it also gives you the opportunity to kino the girl since it involves a lot of contact, and even lets you impress her with your moves (back in the days we both took classes of this).
I took out the first gal, she was a HB 8.5, really cute face. We dance a couple of songs and sat down, we didn’t connect that much. Half an hour later I took out a second girl, this was an 8.0, we danced another set of songs, the band stopped playing so I took her to her table, and told her that I would be back in a minute (my beer was getting warm )
When I got back to the table, I noticed that my friend was starting to freak out, somehow he felt blocked, he couldn’t gather the courage to ask someone to dance, he told me “dude, I don’t know what’s happening to me, I can’t”. I just tried to calm him down, told him that he had to get himself together, that he had done this a ton of times a year ago, when he was suffering from overweight.
Had to break it down form him, told him to forget about it, he was going to ask (I pointed to a random girl) that girl to dance, it didn’t matter what happens, in fact, I can foresee the future, she already told “No”, you’re just going to fulfill my prophecy, and here’s what you’re going to say:
Wing: S’up u wanna dance?
HB says No: “Ok, see ya”
HB says Yes “Cool, let’s go”
HB says “I don’t know how to”: “It doesn’t matter, let’s go”
After a couple of beers he managed to do so, as I foretold, she said “No”, but when he got back, he told how liberated he felt, in fact, he wanted to try it one more time, I patted him on the back and told him “about fvcking time man”, this time we opened a set of two HB 9 and this time they said “Yes”.
The end result of the night for me was 3/4 succesful approaches, 2/2 successful number closes (yesterday I confirmed both), i'm already working on the dates. My wing got 1/2 successful approaches, no number closings, but the amazing part of it was that next morning he called me really early and told me that he wanted to go out to hunt again next weekend, that he had finally woken up :rockon:
Back to present. I called him on Saturday night, told him that I wanted to hang out at the Salsa Club, to which he reluctantly agreed, but he was cool.
We dropped by the club at 11, it was still early, so the club wasn’t that crowded yet. I decided to take this moment, and discuss with him the things that I have learned here on SS, about the importance of the inner game, that even if we didn’t get numbers tonight, at least it would be fun, and we would get some ice cold beers
Finally, after an hour or so, the place started to get crowded, and it was time to ask a girl to dance. The thing that I love about salsa is that it gives you the perfect reason to open a girl by asking her to dance, it also gives you the opportunity to kino the girl since it involves a lot of contact, and even lets you impress her with your moves (back in the days we both took classes of this).
I took out the first gal, she was a HB 8.5, really cute face. We dance a couple of songs and sat down, we didn’t connect that much. Half an hour later I took out a second girl, this was an 8.0, we danced another set of songs, the band stopped playing so I took her to her table, and told her that I would be back in a minute (my beer was getting warm
)When I got back to the table, I noticed that my friend was starting to freak out, somehow he felt blocked, he couldn’t gather the courage to ask someone to dance, he told me “dude, I don’t know what’s happening to me, I can’t”. I just tried to calm him down, told him that he had to get himself together, that he had done this a ton of times a year ago, when he was suffering from overweight.
Had to break it down form him, told him to forget about it, he was going to ask (I pointed to a random girl) that girl to dance, it didn’t matter what happens, in fact, I can foresee the future, she already told “No”, you’re just going to fulfill my prophecy, and here’s what you’re going to say:
Wing: S’up u wanna dance?
HB says No: “Ok, see ya”
HB says Yes “Cool, let’s go”
HB says “I don’t know how to”: “It doesn’t matter, let’s go”
After a couple of beers he managed to do so, as I foretold, she said “No”, but when he got back, he told how liberated he felt, in fact, he wanted to try it one more time, I patted him on the back and told him “about fvcking time man”, this time we opened a set of two HB 9 and this time they said “Yes”.
The end result of the night for me was 3/4 succesful approaches, 2/2 successful number closes (yesterday I confirmed both), i'm already working on the dates. My wing got 1/2 successful approaches, no number closings, but the amazing part of it was that next morning he called me really early and told me that he wanted to go out to hunt again next weekend, that he had finally woken up :rockon: