"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Back in shape!

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Used to work out 2 times a week, but since august last year i started stepping it up a bit to the point where i was working out 4 times a week. As a result of that i got in peak condition from around january till march.
But after that i had a extremely busy trimester and because of that i've only been working out twice a week.. Now i appeart to have lost mass on my arms and my v-shape is dissapearing. :cuss:

Since i've lost my shape in a 2-month period,i'm wondering if that's the time it's gonna take to get back in shape, or is it gonna be 9 months all over again.

Any ideas would be helpful.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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kRisk said:
Used to work out 2 times a week, but since august last year i started stepping it up a bit to the point where i was working out 4 times a week. As a result of that i got in peak condition from around january till march.
But after that i had a extremely busy trimester and because of that i've only been working out twice a week.. Now i appeart to have lost mass on my arms and my v-shape is dissapearing. :cuss:

Since i've lost my shape in a 2-month period,i'm wondering if that's the time it's gonna take to get back in shape, or is it gonna be 9 months all over again.

Any ideas would be helpful.
4 times a week to 2 times a week - you've lost your blood pump. if you've actually lost weight then yeah, you lost mass although I doubt it since you were still working out.

are you still lifting the same weight? i.e. have you lost strength? if you haven't then you lost superficial mass.

if you've actually lost muscle then no, it shouldn't take 9 months to get back. just go back to what gained you the muscle.
 

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Hmm you seem to make a point there about that "blood pump", I haven't lost any weight nor have i been lifting less.

I'm rushing off to get some training in then haha maybe i'll get my shape back before summer's end.

Thanks for the reply, Alex.
 
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