"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Back hair

Nobeard

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What do women think about back hair? I have half middle-eastern blood in me and im starting to develop back hair. It used to bother me that i had hair on my chest but i have gotten over that. I just don't like the back hair now. I am still confident with my shirt on, but everytime i take it off even if the girl i am with is aroused, im wondering if i should get it removed permenantly or something.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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Kevin Feng

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Get that taken care of, in my pick up journey, I've only come across one girl that was actually into body hair, that's one in literally hundreds upon hundreds, so stick to the #'s and get the hair removed.

Remember, inner game is everything, especially if you're just starting out in the game, the last thing you need is something that's screwing you up internally.

I'm a big believer in passive value, because once you take care of it, it's always there, whereas your "Active" game (your verbal game), is what consumes most of your energy.

If there are any ways to improve your passive value, I highly suggest you take them, whether it be dressing nicer, working out, or whatever it is that's going to help you out in field.

Anyways, long story short, get the hair taken care of, pay the money to remove it.

-Kevin
 

TheBucketOfTruth

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Kevin Feng said:
in my pick up journey, I've only come across one girl that was actually into body hair, that's one in literally hundreds upon hundreds, so stick to the #'s and get the hair removed.
Yes but I'm guessing you don't have any back or chest hair, do you kevin? Most girls I've hooked up with have either been into the chest hair or just been indifferent. Back hair on the other hand does have some negative stigma, so it's up to you if you want to take care of it or not. If it really trips you up and you just can't embrace it, then you should get rid of it because it will have adverse effects on your confidence.
 
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